I would like to say that my boyfriends Ex-Wife, (Lets call her Michelle), is a total bitch, but its worse then that... she is a psycho woman from hell.
Sadly, at the naive age of 18, perhaps my boyfriends pending marriage to Michelle was doomed anyways. Regardless of problems before they married, they went through with the wedding anyways, which my boyfriend felt so ashamed of he kept it a secret from family and friends for over a year. To make a long, tragic story short (as the ending is pretty obvious), the relationship continued to deteriorate until it was finally over. Even still, Michelle wouldn't allow him to go, she said she had married him for life and life it would be - if he left she would kill herself and him to boot. This worked for a while but soon the reality was that it was more comfortable to leave then to stay.
After he left and he had moved in with me, Michelle relentlessly harrassed and pursued him - she even went so far as to stalk me (followed me home one day) and threatened openly, and several times, to kill myself and my minor children as well... she took glory in making public her master plan of a huge murder suicide that would grace all the headlines (she said her life was over anyways, so what did it matter?). Michelle was attending a University in Calgary at the time, and the administration took displinary action, put her on Non Academic Misconduct for inappropriate behaviour and death threats, and laid out restrictions for her finishing her Masters, which incuded leaving all of us alone. She is crazy enough even to this day to continue to push the boundaries as far as she thinks she can, even though her entire career is at risk.
Well, I thought if I had a chance to write about this, I would have tonnes to say, but apparently I don't. I can't write about this on any other blog because she meticulously reads all of my web pages and it would only make matters worse (her retaliation would likely be uncomfortable). But its very neat to have a forum to write this. I wish I could post her sad pathetic little website address....
Posted by anonymous at September 8, 2003 8:17 PM | TrackBack
I will never understand the need people have to marry their high school girlfriend/boyfriend. These days, it never works out. People change so much between high school and the age of twenty. You have to live life to make a life.
Plus, she does sound screwed up.
Posted by: Natasha at September 10, 2003 7:30 AMShe sounds like a pathetic spoiled brat who always got what she wanted out of life by throwing a tantrum, so now she is throwing a bigger tantrum cause she cant get what she wants. S ome people have no clue about real life. Some people drive away those which first care about them by their very own selfish nature and then blame it all on the other person... because, hell... they couldn't really have or share any blame in the matter could they?
My boyfriend has the ex-wife from Hell. We are planning a trip to Disneyworld, it's paid for and now she will not write a letter enabling us to travel in the U.S. with his daughter. I can't believe that anyone would be so spiteful. She is jealous because my boyfriend is not working and although I am still paying her she wants more money based on MY INCOME. HELLO????
Posted by: Dee at December 30, 2003 4:45 AMi have the same problem! this ex even went as far as moving to the same town as us!! and even works a few blocks away from our house. were now married and have children, and she is still scorned!!! shes been married a divorced since shes only 30 i think its time she gets a life!
Posted by: j at February 19, 2004 11:20 AMi just want to say that i can relate to the pain. my husband's ex-weirdo is the same way as all of these above. she will do anything to get him back. they were married twice and divorced twice, HELLO?, doesn't that say something about her? they have one son, whom she's completely turned against us. i raised him for 9 months and the little shit is still selfish and ungrateful like his mother. and talk about child support, she won't give me and my husband peace. i'm 13 years younger than my husband. i have 2 kids of my own and we have 2 together. she's 38 and i guess jealous and envious of me. i don't know, all i know is that i'm sick of her and i want her to leave us the hell alone. she always tells my husband to come back home to her. we are suppose to move in a few months, she told him that she is going to move down the street from us so that he can be closer to her. DID HE NOT LEAVE HER CRAZY ASS FOR A REASON? i am fed up and tired of her crap, what can i do to keep her away from us?
Posted by: l at June 18, 2004 3:35 AMI have a problem with my husband's ex girlfriend Pam Mathis Woods. They have a 10 yr old child together. She has been harrasing me by mail and phone. She signs me up for offers and promotions anything that will produce junk mail or spam to my email. Looks for any way to get under my skin and denies everything. I am put a restraining order on her to get her to stop. If you have an ex girlfriend or wife that is obsessed or PYSCHO get even with her where it counts...law enforcement. Do not let yourself lay victim to these bitches.
Posted by: Sherri Crane at June 18, 2004 1:58 PM