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Steal him from his wife. Marry him, and than spend the rest of your life wondering if he's doing the same thing to YOU. Cheaters aren't worth the salt on their peanuts. DON'T DO IT.

Of course it's wrong. It's always wrong. Don't be an idiot. The "connection" that you feel now will leave just as soon as the deed has been done, and in my experience, the guilt that he feels about cheating on his wife will be taken out on you. Don't do it.

Home wrecker. What the fuck is wrong with you? Do you think he'll leave her and marry you? And if so that he'll not do the same to you? Are you that stupid?

Does he have kids? If so you're going to fuck up their lives if you keep this up. Do you want to live with the guilt of knowing that YOU broke up a family because you were too selfish to think about anyone else?

Grow up and find a real man.

What do you get when you mess around with a married man? You get a man who cheats on his wife. What a catch, huh?

Boy oh boy, after months of the Be True To Yourself Crusade marching inexorably through the lands of moral relativism to defeat the infidel, somebody finally crosses a line into the holy ground of the morally unacceptable. I thought I would never see the day.

The question was: is sleeping with a married man always wrong? The consensus answer is yes. Let us assume this is the right answer for a moment. I try to assume nothing, which is reason 47 why I never land on the New York Times Bestseller List. This answer begs the next question: why? Again the moral majority answer is that it is very bad for third parties, and it is ultimately self-defeating to be attached to a cheater.

Well what if there were no children? And what if our gentle poster has no intention of keeping this cheating man anyway? They have even invented a term for such a person, the serial monogamist. Let me short cut this for you: there is no way to dissuade this person unless you hold at least one ABSOLUTE MORAL PRECEPT.

Oh, and from where does the obligation not to harm the spouse you don't know and have never met derive? Has there never, ever been in the history of mankind a woman who deserves to be treated this way? I think some of you have left the bathroom with some gender double standard stuck to your shoe, again.

Blah blah blah get off her back people. She was just asking a fucking question so other people would back her up and say no.

It's called asking a question you already know the answer to.

Duh.

She asked and we answered. Should we change our moral codes to suit the issue at hand? Or, should we speak our minds?

She wanted input or she wouldn't have posted in an area that leaves room for comments.

I admire her for stopping to question her own actions.

Yeah at least she has some common sense to actually realize that what she was considering would be wrong.

Been there done that with a married woman. Very bad idea. You'll end up much worse for it. Find yourself a nice single guy and get on with life. Otherwise, be prepared to pay for therapy...

Well the question is wrong is generally yes, by most benchmarks of morality.

Unlike some I would not go so low as to call you names for asking a question...I would only recommend you carefully think through your actions.

Are you only interested in sex with this man, or do you expect something more - something he might not be able or willing to give you? If he has children it is doubly difficult.

The fact that you have already engaged in heavy petting suggests he is not entirely content with his marriage - this does not mean that he is willing to leave his wife - he may simply be playing around or looking for sexual encounters his wife cannot give him.

Whatever you do - be VERY careful - cheap lust is fun but like cheap chocolate it only tastes good intially.

Personally, i'm in that position today, and I (call me scarlet) have already done it, don't regret it, and have no expectation because my guy spelled that out going in. He initiated, I responded, and I'm not sorry (yet). Obviously there's something that I give him that she doesn't, and if that's what it's about, then so be it! We connect in so many ways, and both agree, had we met years ago, we'd be together today. So, since we can't, we can still 'be together'. When we can, if we can, and I take what I can get for the moment. Don't speak unless you've been there.

I think there are exceptions to every rule. I met a man and we were both married to other people. It started as friendship but grew quickly. I know this man is my soulmate. We could never let each other go and see each other every chance we get. I'm not giving up the love of my life to not hurt someone elses feelings. SO if it's love go for it! If it's for sex don't.

You're all talking about her ruining his marriage. Since when did she marry this woman? She has absolutely no obligation to this woman or her emotions. He married her and it is his responsibility. Falling in love with a married man is idiotic, but it's bull shit to make it seem like she's too blame if his family falls apart. It's his fucking family.

He gets: weekends having fun with his family and friends. Holidays, birthdays, special events with his family and friends. He gets sex from both you and his wife. He gets you when he wants you; only when HE wants you. He gets it all.

You get: To to ponder him while you spend long weekends alone. Holidays alone. Birthdays alone. Special events alone. No sex, unless he wants it. No one to go places with. No intimate moments of a relationship to share with him. He has his wife for that. No heartfelt gifts because of his wife. Life alone. No relationship.

Exactly how are you "connected" with him?

I'm in a similar situation. But I have already been in love with this man for 18 years. He was my first everything and we recently reconnected. I'm willing to take the chance for that love no matter what anyone else thinks, but I wouldn't bother if it was just about sex!! No matter how good the sex is, it's just not worth the reprocussions

I'm in the situation know with a married co-worker he has been flirting with me since I started this job in October, when I try to avoid him he comes to me and say things like I want the old you back, or why are you being mean to me. What do he want from me "sex"?

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