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I have been married to such a woman. You can count on Misery as a constant in your life. Oh yes there will be the occassional moments of bliss,but I cannot stress the word "moments" enough. I was with such a woman for eight years. I finally married her and the marriage lasted for six weeks. I got lucky. I hope you do as well.

Mr. Bear

Kick the bitch out and raise yor children in a bitchfree enviroment. Stop complianing about something that you have the power to change. Men can be the single parent. I am a single father of three. I kicked my overly bitchy ex-wife out six years ago and I kept the house, the car, the kids, etc. .
Get off of your pitty party and do something about her!

Are you the guy who's wife works at the methadone clinic?
If so follow the advice from the above posted comment.

There are other women - nice women - on this crazy world too, you know?! So if you're not happy, why stay with this person for the rest of your miserable life? Ask yourself these questions: Am I born for this? Do I deserve to live a life? Or am I just someone else's slave?

Hey Mara,
You sound like a nice girl can I get your email address? We could talk.

You know what's really sad? One day the bitch will up and leave you and take the kids with her, and you won't be able to do a thing about it, because the system will always give custody to the mother.

If men stand up for their custodial rights they can and do have just as much of a claim to custody of the children. Unfortunately most men assume that what the above commenter says is true. It is not so I am a single father of three and I kept the house, the car, the kids, the money, etc. .. If you are going through separation or divorce don't give up on your family. Do what is best for your kids. If they have a bitchy mother, get them away from her. A woman would get the kids away from an out of control dad. Don't be a pussy. Fuck the bitch.

The single father of three who got custody of the kids is an exception. For the most part, the judge will bend over backward to keep the children with their mother. Speaking as a woman who stood behind her husband when he tried to get his daughter from a mentally ill ex, I know. Even when it was discovered that the child was molested due to the mother's poor judgement in leaving her child alone with a guy she met on the internet and who just showed up at her door one day; even when felony charges were brought against the mother for the filthy conditions she and the child lived in, the judge sided with the mother. The sad truth is, if the poster leaves, most likely his wife will not only keep the kids, she will most likely give him a hard time about visitation. That's the sad truth.

The above comment sounds like an antic dote. All situations are different. I did not suggest that the poster should leave rather he ask the unhappy wife to leave. This would give him control of the marital home. At this point he could file for temporary custody and most likely get it. The reason the laws seem so one sided is that most men make the mistake of abandoning the marital home and leaving the children with the woman. Also the poster clearly stated that he provided a majority of the care for the children. This fact would give him priority in a judges ruling. If the poster goes to bat with confidence and the facts on his side he should prevail. Once again the biggest mistake that most men make is letting the woman make them feel guilty and running them out of the home. If a woman becomes unruly call the police, which is what she would do if the man became unruly. It is high time that woman live up to the equal rights amendment. What good for the gander is good for the goose.

Consider this: What are you teaching your children by not leaving... or by not fixing it?

I left my husband when I realized I didn't ever want my daughter to believe that she would have to stay in a loveless relationship. I realized that was what I was teaching her.

It wasn't easy, but since then we have both found new spouses and come together as an extended family. Its much easier for us to be friends at a distance and it's great for the kids, who know have four loving parents instead of two that are having problems standing each other.

What the hell is an "antic dote"?

dictionary.com, asshole.

I hope the "asshole" you're referring to dictionary.com is the one who used the term "antic dote", and not the one who sarcastically questioned it. The one who sarcastically questioned it is very aware that the correct usage is "anecdote." This particular entity does not use words without properly spelling them and using them correctly.

Why do you assume that if this man tells his wife to leave, that she actually will? If she's such a miserable bitch, it is highly unlikely that she will cooperate with his request. I don't see any suggestions that they seek counseling, or that either of them get a good physical checkup. It's automatically "leave", or "throw the bitch out." Why not look for a solution instead of throwing in the towel? Marriage is work, folks, and it gets harder when children are involved. Maybe one of them needs a good anti-depressant. Maybe both of them do.

It is the return of the infamous Dr. Spellcheck. I must spellcheck all of my posts and comments. This entity is humbled.

Yes, why don't we pound a square peg through a round hole? If it doesn't fit we can counsel it through. A couple of anti-depressants a day will grease that hole. If people don't get along they should get away from each other. You raise a good debate but, why throw money away trying to counsel the situation if you already know that you are miserable? Change is good. Be all that you can be. Don't let a bitchy partner hold you back. Rise above the problem. That is all I am trying to say.

Remember, we are hearing only the husband's side of the story. There are two sides to every sad tale we hear.

I have held back but the solution is simple--SODOMY!

You just cannot kick someone out for being bitchy.
There aren't many as miserable as me, my wife has 2 daughters that have evolved into super pyscho bitches with violence and non stop swearing, you try to discipline them guess what you get.
I stay only for my little girl who I am afraid will no doubt be converted after the age of 11 into another alien.

Right Mate lets get somthin strate here i am very cross with your comment this is ur step daughter and very upset with ur comment paul y av u walked out and packed ur bags and write this on phyco chat room n turn round and say where phyco's ur the phyco mate resignin from ur job n lettin my mum put up wiv it? she now hased to look after 3 kids 1 by him n 2 not by him he got ma mum preggy ppl n all he finks bout is er he is on ere 24/7 pretendin he works wen he is on chat rooms he seds he's earnin money.i am 13 by the way n carn't put up with his egresive behaviour, he hits his step children.

my mum is now cryin her eye's out telling her daughter where her daddy is she is 4! they are saying he has gone on holiday family's shoudn't av 2 put up with men being like this. same comment ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

WOW....wow wow wow...I am unhappy and miserable in my marriage as well but for some reason I wanted to see the male side of it so I found this site you all have going. I think the one person who posted saying "kick the wife out" and keep the kids, house, money, etc... but truth is if she is smart at all she will not leave her children behind because if she does, then yes indeed the courts I have seen can be inclined to give custody to the father...so I doubt the wife would leave easily. It's truly a hard call. I divorced my first husband and it was the very best thing I ever did in my life. However, it was not the best thing for my daughter. Too long of a story to go into. But now I find in this marriage I am truly not sure what to do about the unhappiness. It's true it is not good for the children to grow up in a home thats unhappy because then they think that is what normal is, when they grow up they will marry what is familiar to them. On the other hand, most of the time divorce truly does hurt the children...not always but most of the time it does. There are alternate ways to deal with lack of affection, love and sex, it can be gotten elsewhere if need be....or thats what I'm thinking these days. I was going to leave, my 1st daughter was grown and gone and I still had my looks thank god and so I was going to leave and I told him that and then being so starved for sex I never say no on the rare occassion it's offered and 8 weeks later guess what....at 44 I was pregnant again and now am starting all over, can you believe that...empty nest not empty anymore but now if I leave I am truly afraid it will be damaging for my new 1 yr. old daughter. I've been there, I've done that and it was good for me, but it was not good for my child when I divorced before so now I hesitate to bail out again. It's very hard to be in a consistently loveless AND sexless marriage but part of me thinks maybe better to just suck it up and keep the family together and just find an alternate way to find satisfaction outside the marriage. Husband is not open to counseling, he wont talk to anyone about any of it, everything is underwraps in his mind. I dont get it. I'm sure he thinks I'm a bitch I know he does. He says he can't forgive the mean things I say to him and I say why not, I have to forgive you everytime you lie to me and break my heart and the lack of being touched sexually for months at a time really does a number on your self esteem no matter how good looking or hot you are. Your self esteem dips because you loath yourself for staying in such an unhappy marriage, or for me, when I know I could walk 10 feet down the street and easily find someone who would love to share a bed with me, why should I have to beg this man for that, not gonna do it anymore. I wish I had the answer...I wish one of you had the answer...but I can say this much I doubt that one wife will leave her home by merely asking...bribery might work though...or is that called alimony ? LOL....I think some men just try to make a wife miserable so that she will leave but thats different then trying to get her to leave behind her children....she'd be a real idiot to do that...might be worth a try, but dont hold your breath. Now I recall a childhood friend whose parents divorced but they owned some apartments 8 unit bldg. and each parent lived in one of the apartments and they sort of raised the child together that way and it looked like it worked very well. I think before anyone leaves the house if they are smart, they will seek the advice of at least 3 or 4 lawyers first, regardless if male or female spouse. PS....to the one who said get off the pity party...shame on you, you deserve a smack. the man was sharing his feelings and getting it off his chest, nothing pussy about that and it isn't a pity party, but it is nice to know that none of us are insane or crazy and we are not alone in feeling unhappy in a marriage...misery loves company and knowing your not alone truly does help. I've never really heard men talk about this stuff so it's actually nice to know that men have a heart and soul too and even better when they can openly talk about whats going on. My husband never talks, nope just sweep sweep sweep it under the carpet. Divorce is a hard call and anyone who makes it sound easy...is questionable in my eyes.

I married my wife because I knocked her up. It was the worst day of my life when she told me she was pregnant. After constant pressure from my family I caved and married her. My son is the best thing ever. I can deal with not being married to the right person but why does she have to be such a bitch about things. Maybe she is miserable but I'm a good guy and she is lucky to have me. I treat her right for the most part but she has this insecurity that makes her be rotten at times. I could be happy with her if she'd just chill a bit. I don't plan to divorce because my son is the most important thing to me. I've seen what divorces do to kids and I do not want it happening to mine. Anyways, I searched Google for "Why is my wife such a bitch" and this came up. Free therapy.

my wife is a bitch

damn she is such a bitch

My wife also makes me miserable... no matter what i fucken do, she always has to find something to make me hate my whole life... Thats why ive decided to launch a website to fight back against the bitches....

www.husbandsunited.org

Time to rip into the bitchs and unite against shit we have to put up with each and every day!!!

i was happy until the day i got married which is almost 4 fucken years ago..to this day i regret that day.women are never happy, never fucken happy. they want their husbands to leave everything and look at their faces all day. That website www.husbandsunited.org is a good place to start. We are working on it but with the kind support of all miserable and unhappy males like you it should be a success.Obviously trying to juggle a professional life and a miserable married life makes it a bit hard to maintain that site but keep visiting and enter your comments on the forum.
HUSBANDS OF THE WORLD UNITE against these bitches who have made our lives miserable......

One day I walked outside of chique LA penthouse only to see my wife getting porked right there in the cement drive way by some big guy and she had the nerve to say "go away bill your embarassing me" so I walked to my car and popped open the trunk and grabbed my magnum revolver and walked back to my wife and looked at her for one last second, then i unloaded all the round into her and the guy and dragged thier bodies to my trunk. I got in my car and drove out by an abandoned farmhouse that convienently had a woodchipper inside of it so i opened my trunk and dragged the body of my naked slutty wife and the big guy one by one inside the farmhouse...I then turned the woodchipper one and loaded my wifes naked dead slut body and the big ugly stupid meathead guy into the woodchipper and watched them get mauled into ground beef...now I am in a asylum for the criminally insane and to this day i am happy with what i did that stupid bitch deserved it.

I am in a similar predicament right now. I've only been married about 3 years, and my wife has become a 100% BITCH to me. I should have seen it coming, she was always a bitch to others but very nice to me while we were dating. Now that we're married, she treats me like I'm her property. Her mother is a bitch to her father, too. The poor old man is now a shruken mute who has no say in anything. I'm heading down that track too, if I don't make a change. Trouble is, we have an 8 month old son. If I leave, I'm sure she'll teach him to hate me, or he'll resent me when he gets older. I'm one stressed out dude.

I got the same thing going as above. Been married about 6 years, 5 yr old son and 18 month son. My wife always treats me like shit. 100% BITCH is right. Her mother treated her father the same way. They are divorced. He was in and out of mental hospitals all starting while being married to her! He's always told me it was because of how he was treated by my mother in law. My wife calls me throughout the day at work, yelling & crying about the kids and she can't handle them, etc. Then when I make a suggestion she hangs the fuck up on me! I absolutely hate her and have so much stress and aggravation from her...but...can't handle the costs of child support, etc. in NJ. So, guess I live with it as I have and look forward to the looney bin some day soon

Glad to see I'm not the only one. This woman, isn't even my fuckin wife yet, and I swear, there have been days when I want to pound her stupid face through a fucken wall. I tolerate her because we have a 10month old daughter together (who I love dearly...dearly enough to put up with this shit), but fuck do I reallly hate this woman.
Then of course the worst part is that she says, we shouldn't be together, cause I need to go out and find someone who will make me happy, but I know where that's going. She basically wants me to say something like "yeah I guess you're right", so she can have something else to hold over me and torment me about.

More importantly, are any of you other guys with these bitch wives/gf's at least getting some tail? I can't remember the last time this bitch has put out....

So, Just what exactly do I do? Do i stay? Do I go? Is it really that terrible? My wife is an absolute bitch. She constantly complains about everything. Except sex. Or at least she doesn't complain about that to me. But, I'm sure it is a topic of conversatin with her long time partner in crime. Who also hates her husband and her life but can't get past her self far enough to fix it. My wife for some odd reason believes the household is an absolute matriarchy. And, Oh yes, She is the Queen. Now that we have been married for a few years and have stopped tiptoeing around one another, or at least, I've stopped tiptoeing around her. She believes that I don't think she should have a say in anything that goes on in the relationship. I.e., bills, how the house is taken care of what happens with the kids,(dissaplin or praise), or anything else. Fact of the matter is, is that I let her have her way in all these matters for quite some time with very little interjection. Meaning that if she did something or caused something to happen that was or was going to be detrimental to our lively hood as a family i would intervine. Be it financially, moraly, or expression of opinion. Well, once again, all the bills are past due, Her son has sent himself to the hospital emergency room more than twice for drug related problems and her daughter, if she keeps going will be pregnant before she is 14, and more than likely will also become an abuser of drugs. Did I say her children? Yes. Why? Because I am the step-father and thats the way the matryarch wants it. Truthfully, I think, she wants a yes dear, no dear man that will just let her run willy nilly with out saying or doing anything to interject, no matter what. Fact of the matter is, is that I am opinionated and I do care about what happens with my wife and kids. My kids? Yes. Why? Try to find the two different fathers they have. Then ask the kids who was there for them. Who buys their clothes, feeds them, pays their doctor bills,(no matter how contirved(drugs), and generaly takes care of them the best way he possibly could. When you ask them this and not in the presence of me or the mother, I think the answer may be shocking. The boy, truthfully, just does not like me. Not without reason. Not only am I opinionated, but from years of experience I have also become sort of intuitive about people. He knows this and knows I know him and what he is really like as a person. He really isn't very nice. The girl on the other hand has fallen into that wonderful adolesant age and is learning quite well how to treat boys with total and utter direspect jsut because they are boys. These things she practices on me and god forbid I should say anything to her about her actions or attitude. She runs to her mother with everything I say and do, If it doesn't suite her, and then I have to hear it from my wife about how I'm not letting her have a say in how the kids are raised. In other words, she is telling me not to bother with being concerned about the wellfare of the kids. "They are my (her) kids." I come home from work every day I walk through the door and say "Hi Hun" or wifey pooh or even on occassion, sugar britches. I ask her how her day was. Well knowing that it was a bad one. Because of some mysterious ache or pain or the people she had to deal with or the drive to and from work was bad because no-one else knows how to drive. Now I know that all of this cant be contrived but, Holy Cow. How many bad days in a row can a person have! Oh, sorry. I'll answer that. All of them! Ya know, when everything and everybody that you deal with is rotten to you or with you, maybe you should step back and look at yourself. I have to go but I'm coming back to talk to myself some more. Maybe it will help me figure out all this misery I,m feeling. Maybe talking to me (looking at myself) will help me figure out how to make better what I feel just isn't right. I really don't want to believe that the wife is super bitch, but, right now that "is" what i believe.

my wife is a total fucking bitch too

my wife is a bitch, and she is stupid too. So I constantly have to explain simple things to her.

Man! Music to my ears! My wife is never fucking happy. I think I have finally dug up the nerve to kick the bitch out. I've been married for almost 3 years but with her for 7 and she just gets progressively worse. I always knew she was a bitch but the last year she has cranked the dial to "Full out fucking BIATCH!” Her son lives with us and I love him very much, he's like MY son and he always has been. It's taken me a long time to come to terms with the fact that he is not my responsibility even though I love him like my own. She might not even let me see him and not being a biological son who knows the courts will say. Probably "Too bad asshole, move on". I guess I'm finally ready for a divorce and all the shit that comes with it. Goodie. Fuck it! It's better then living with this miserable, impossible-to-please, insensitive, stone, poisoned tongued bitch.

Thanks fellas, I needed that.

Hey guys you think you have marrage well let me tell you a story, Last fri 12-15-2005 my mother past a way. my wife was getting info from my dad and sisters on how she died, my wife was laughing on the phone when my sister was giving her the info, what do make of this? I asked her why she was doing that she just got mad, my mother was not a well person she had mental problems but we all understood her. she did not have a lot of contact with us so there was no reason for my wife to hate her.i think that my wife did this to hurt me, I cannot even stand to look at her. we have 5 kids two are hers and the other three are ours, she does not work and does nothing but watch tv all day, the older kids do most of her work in the household, whey do wifes do nothing but just sit and take up space?I don't know what to do with her.

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I Honestly beleive that I have the most inconsiderate wife alive. I have ben deployed in Iraq for the last eleven months. she did not even so much send a card for my Birthday(when I called her she actualy forgot it was my birthday), Thanksgiving, Christmas or our anniversary. I called the house in the middle of the night the other day and got no answer so I called her cellphone at 2:30 a.m. and she was at a club. While I am out here sweating my ass off literaly living in hell she is out partying. She has managed to spend most all of the money that I have made out here on bullshit. Then there are the little things, like she never asks about me or what I am doing, she shows no respect for what I am doing out here and actuley blames me for leaving. I honestly beleive that if we didnt taalk for a month that she would not even notice. I often wonder if she thinks about me at all.

Wow, I feel like I might be a regular contributor to this...

Tonight, we all went out to a nice restaurant (me, my daughter, my parents and the bitch)... Dinner went great.. got home, and she was getting the girl ready for bed, and shock of shocks the little girl spit up a bit.
Well, the crazy bitch lost it and yelled at me, (for reasons not yet explained to me).. At this point I think the she has some kind of bipolar disorder or something. I'm thinking about having her stupid ass committed or at least medicated because her actions sure aren't the actions of a sane woman.

Till next time...

Girlfriends? Great! Understanding, compasionate, loving, careing, will do ANYTHING for the man. Marry them.... They do NOTHING unless they benefit somehow. Wives have an alterior motive for everything they do. It's a shame, I want to love a woman, but the can not be trusted.

A man marries a woman hoping she'll never change, but she does! A woman marries a man figuring she can change him, but she can't.

JB

How propitous, this blog started on my birthday.

Guys, never marry a woman who won't put out before you say "I do."

Before we were married, my wife and I would snuggle, and she would even go down on me. But no penetrative sex. Evangelical Christian. Never mind that they believe that sins are forgiven, this is one sin she wasn't prepared to indulge in, despite giving every impression of being up for it. I now believe that this was an act.

On the honeymoon, it turns out that she hates sex. Finds it painful because she's too emotionally and physically tense to enjoy it. I give her the benefit of the doubt, because she's inexperienced and I'm a caring kind of guy. I figure, so what, it'll get better with time.

Four years into our marriage, I'm lucky if I get it once every three months, and I have to bitch for about a week about how frustrated I am, after which it just feels like she's doing it just to appease me.

The icing on the cake? The ONE night she actually seems like she's up for it is the night she "forgets" to take her pill. For all I know, she'd been "forgetting" all week. Jumps on me like a student nurse with four Barcadis in her and promptly gets herself knocked up. This was at a time I was seriously considering leaving the bitch (and she probably knew it too).

Now I have a lovely 2 year old daughter. Alas, I have to put up with my wife, and her control-freak bitch of a mother as well, as she signed her up for childcare services (yes, I pay this woman to interfere with my life). As I write, I've had sex once in the last six months.

I love my daughter to bits. The thought of my mother-in-law fucking her up the way she fucked up my wife makes me shudder, but I can't get rid of the bitch because my wife can't see what a manipulative overbearing hell-cow she is. And I can't leave because my access to her will drop to precisely zero.

And I can't even get a little tail on the side because my wife would probably do physical harm to my genitals, and THEN deny me access to my daughter. Not that I would really be able to pull anymore, because what was once a young, virile, 24 year old doctor has become a 32 year old software developer with greying hair and a rapidly increasing alcohol habit.

My advice? Never rely solely on the pill for birth control. You are placing your future directly in the hands of a person whos' decision matrix is wired straight into their ovaries. Take control of your reproductive system boys, always use a condom.

I'll never regret having a beautiful daughter. I just regret who I had her with.

Hi,

You all should meet my wife her attiude has taken a major crash, I have 4 step kids and here as of late the wife has taken a bitchy attitude lays around says she is fat hell ya she has put on 10-15 pounds in the two years we have been together, she says i do enough for her, bah i work 70 hours a week just to make ends meet while she sits on her ass at the house and does nothing. Come home at 8pm at night kids still not fed kids trying clean up house but cant get much done with a bitchy wife. well guess its time to tell her to back her shit, although the bad part kids love them but there non biological.

Can't honestly believe what Im reading...you guys are all idiots...My wifes a Bitch, My wife is nasty, boo hoo boo hoo...get a friggin life. Talk to her not some key board, you all have kids, is this the role models you want your kids to see? In 20 yrs time, when your kids have grown up and left home, they will probably be in some sorry ass relationship...and guess what ITS YOUR FAULT, cos you didn't have the balls to something positive about it.
Im married and yeah we have our bad times, but we sort it out. Im sure if things didn't work out, we could be human enough to be civil for the kids sake....Don't you think theres enough hate in the world? GROW UP, Grab your balls by the hand and say..Enough I want to be happy and I want my kids to be happy and I would also like my wife to be happy...because she was at one stage...after all you married her..............

Get a vasectomy like I did, and read all this stuff and laugh!

My wife is 7 months pregnant and seems to believe every thing is my fault. Her bad credit, her lack of direction, the fact that I need to work to pay the bills. She curses and yells at me in front of our 5 year old daughter. She tells me to move out, threatenign to call the police, I pack my stuff and by the time i am at the front door she says I am scum for leaving her when she is pregnant. She always hangs up the phone on me when i call her from work to she how she is doing. She theatens to take my kids away from me if i leave.

All day long she calls me names.

Slowly but surely I feel my grasp of sanity feeting into the night. It seems i am trapped... unable to stay... unable to leave. I can't afford to fight her in court (she is unemployed and will get legal aid). All i do is sit and take the abuse.

I feel dead.

I'm learning to do without her. She is bi-polar and not pleasant. I'm happy some days are good. Never dealt with anyone so needy and mean at the same time?

there's a reason tha in some countries it is accepted for married me to have mistresses.

Because you have read this far, you must have a bitch of a wife like me too, get a vasectomy! This bitch keeps from being sane. I vowed to never let that paternity clock start over. I love my kids and would love them to have more brothers and sisters but not at the current cost. This 40 year old spoiled adolescent who is referred to as my wife can go get fucked some where else if she wants more. (Yes, I mean that figuratively and literally)

mine is a bitch who has no sex drive at all. less than 30 times in 6 years.

dan:
it takes 2 to make sex drive.

can't believe u posted this, expect 0 for the next 6 years

Well fellas...for those of you with insecure bitchy wives - perhaps you need to say 1 nice thing everyday (and mean it) about the way she looks, tell her daily that you care for her and you are happy to be with her, bring her flowers, make her feel like the princess you made her feel like when you were courting.

See here's the deal guys - in the beginning Girlfriend phase - you woo us, have romantic dates, the blush is on the rose if you know what I mean...we live in separate places, still have separate "lives".

Then we move in together married or not and all of a sudden it seems we're supposed to be your girlfriend (the sexy woman) and YOUR mother (the one who cleans up after your stanky basketball clothes) and make your economical but gourmet dinners...hmmmm....pressure is on....

Then "we get pregnant". Do you have any idea what that does to us???? Going from 125 to 165 in 9 months? Hormone changes? Then after we have the baby we're supposed to go back to our high school figure, be this picture of perfect motherhood...and hold down a job? Remember boys -we're also you're sexy girlfriend, your wife and we're taking the place of YOUR mommy and now this new kid's mommy...and pulling 150k a year...

So WHAT if your wife is a bitch - if she's not an addict, if she doesn't cheat on you, cut HER some slack man, the woman is STRESSED!

Thanks.

I found this website by accident and just starting reading - what a bunch of whining pussys in here! If you are married to a woman that is making you miserable then leave! Get the divorce, pay the child support, visit the kids when you can - but just leave. Life is real short and there is nothing worse than spending your life married to the wrong person. Quit making excuses for why you stay; get off your ass, be a man, and do something about your situation rather coming in here and whining like little girly men. I left, found a new woman, pay child support, visit the kids when I can and it was the best move of my life - I am NOT miserable anymore. I am really ashamed of you guys - take control of your life before it is over.

Did you ever think the issue could be the men, augydoggy? Some of these men probably have no money for a divorce, no money to pay child support and they've really done their wives wrong and stay in the relationship because they feel guilty, are co-dependent, and believe couldn't make it on their own? Misery loves company - perhaps the men have some obsession with being miserable - else their pitiful existence would have no meaning?

Perhaps they are religious and believe that they can work it out or should stay together because the SWORE infront of God that they would but are too insecure to get counseling?

You, obviously, should not have gotten married when you did. We call those starter marriages. I'm glad you learned your lesson - perhaps you can spread the word?

Men should not EVEN THINK about marriage until they pass age 30.

Good luck.

To: one of the bitches

Man are you bitter! Read my post again - I never made any reference as to whose fault it was - maybe it was no one's fault - could be just 2 incompatible people got together. I just said, if you are miserable then be man enough to take the steps to get out. We are all only alive for a very short time and to waste our one life with someone that makes us miserable is stupid. I don't care whose fault it is - if it is not working - then end it. These whiners in here aren't doing their kids any good by having mom and dad fight in front of them all the time. Marriage today is not forever - 50-60% end in divorce and so what? When it's over it's over - cut your losses and move on. The clock is ticking on all of us and if you don't take the steps to make yourself happy then no one else will. And the very name that you chose for yourself, "one of the bitches" says a lot about your attitude - and it is bad. I think you need to move on with your life too - you still seem to have issues that you are dealing with. Divorce is always cheaper than staying in a bad marriage - emotionally as well as financially. You can always go earn more money but bad marriages will suck the life right out of people that try to stay in them. All of you in here need to move on - I don't plan to come back to this forum again - it full of self-pitying losers that are too scared to try to change their life for the better. Bye losers!

I have been married for 13 long years with two children who are 6 and 2 1/2. I have been so unhappy with my husband for so long that it seems like i have been crying for as long as i can remember. We have close to no sexual relationship and that frustrates me because i have a great body despite having two children and other men always hit on me and my girl friends always compliments me on how i keep my body so trimmed and sexy. To add to this frustration, my in laws are horrible to me and my husband never stands up for me nor does he help me around the house. He calls me names with a drop of a hat, he is not sympathetic to any of my needs even when i'm sick. In 13 years i had suffered two miscarriages and one was particularly bad and he didn't even offer any emotional or physical help during that time. I get no support from him what so ever except criticism. Sometimes, i feel like having an affair but i have not found anyone as of yet and i often feel that i have lost the ability to love. Unhappy Wife.

I'm married to the biggest evil bitch in the world. She doesn't cook, clean, laundry, shop, bathe, screw. She doesn't do a fucking thing but bitch. When she's not bitching, she doesn't talk to me AT ALL. Then she wondered why I was talking to other women on the web. After taking that crap for 15 years I needed to talk to someone real. Take my wife PLEASE.

wow...I thought I am married to the biggest bitch on the planet. Most of what I see in this blog is the same stuff I've experienced. After 18 years of marriage my wife is pushing for a divorce in order to pursue the man of her dreams. Should I feel obligated to the next guy in her life to let him know that after the sex calms down and the dust clears he won't be able to expect one thing from her other than bitching till the end of time. Unhappy wife...I'll appreciate you.

Are you crazy. Take total advantage of that situation. Make her leave everything. The home cars and any other valuable items. When she is gone cash out the house and anything else of value. Let the asshole that thinks he is stealing your women find out the hard way. Crap you are lucky why couldn't that happen to me!

Quoting jeff laskey "My wife is 7 months pregnant and seems to believe every thing is my fault. Her bad credit, her lack of direction, the fact that I need to work to pay the bills. She curses and yells at me in front of our 5 year old daughter. She tells me to move out, threatenign to call the police, I pack my stuff and by the time i am at the front door she says I am scum for leaving her when she is pregnant. She always hangs up the phone on me when i call her from work to she how she is doing. She theatens to take my kids away from me if i leave.

All day long she calls me names.

Slowly but surely I feel my grasp of sanity feeting into the night. It seems i am trapped... unable to stay... unable to leave. I can't afford to fight her in court (she is unemployed and will get legal aid). All i do is sit and take the abuse.

I feel dead.

Posted by: jeff laskey at January 29, 2006 03:24 PM"

It is truly interesting that I came across this little tirade from my ever so hard done by husband.

What he, and probably most of you, are forgetting is how awful people can be to each other.

i read a comment left from another woman about the difficult position women are left with after the honeymoon stage...having to become everything on top of the sexy girlfriend.

I also read another comment from another poster about doing something about your current situation...

Be kind to each other..rather than bitching here about your 'bitches'...ask your partner what is wrong, kindly, safely, gently.

You all have the guts to whine and complain here...true courage would be better served facing the beast and trying to resolve the issues.

This is all too childish, boys. Grow Up!

But like me, I am almost certain none of your wives know what to do, what is wrong, or how to fix it...you spilled your hurt, complaints and confusion to no one here. Do you not want to fix your marriage? Go talk to her!

I would not have known had I not stumbled across this rant blog..

It takes 2 to fail, it takes 2 to succeed...and the key we are all forgetting is that marriage is supposed to be a partnership...

Jeff painted a rather ugly picture of me...he has a lot of explaining to do...
because he painted it with his eyes closed.

I know I am hurt. I am sure your wives would be too if they found this site.

Eve

I think that all marriages need to be worked on. Marriage is a hard decision in itself and obviously, you married your spouse for some reason. My husband and I don't have sex much either. At first, before we were married, we had it all the time. Now, he has to sort of beg and I think I know why. I never really knew him before. Now I see how insensitive, gross, rude he is. He is always loud, making rude comments and then later on will apologize, I am such an ***hole. I say yes, you are. Good night and no kiss. Then in the morning, it is the same. I don't feel the love yet he tells me he loves me all the time. Whose fault is this? I don't think I am ever mean. I just can't have sex after all that. Ew.

My wife is a bitch. I used to be such a nice, happy go lucky guy, but not anymore. My wifes constant bitching, whining, complaining, nagging and general negative attitude is making me depressed and lonely. I drunk too much and avoid going home because the bitch is there waiting to make me miserable. I hate what my wife has done to me. I can't leave because my three year old son (who doesn't really seem to like his mommy) needs me.

Have you guys ever thought that you wives are just sick and tired of raising ANOTHER CHILD

Have you guys ever thought that your wives are just sick and tired of raising ANOTHER CHILD. I mean really, going out drinking so that you didn't have to go home, GROW UP!

I have found through personal experience that the way to make a woman happy is to get in there and work along side her. At the end of a long day when the kids are in bed and WE have done everything that needs to be done TOGETHER, she is more likely to want to make me happy because she sees that I care.

i see both sides of this issue. been married for 19 years been to counselor after counselor as a couple and read book after book doing self help. i am trying not to give in but i can not find a fix for disrepect and venom. I'm praying for God's intervention. my wife and me are christians and that means we recognize God's word as our ultimate authority but the rubber aint meeting the road. hypocrites? you bet. It's difficult to live by one's convictions but harder yet when the one you are tied to is railing against you and not the problems life and the world throw at you as a couple. for me, it's like trying to hug a porky pine sometimes. the only thing i have left to hold onto is God himself. Life is so hard. I feel so rejected and hurt and have been for as long as I can remember. When I met her, I thought I'd found my love in this life. I feel betrayed. Sure I've contributed to our issues but after all we've been through in trying to make it right there is still this basic communication thing that is causing such pain. For those offended by God's word kindly tune out. The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. I am sincerely trying to govern my words and actions by this standard. What really hurts is when I am following this accord and then the venom and disrepect starts coming at me, if I even say,"Hey, I don't like your tone of voice" or "that's not fair" it goes from a rain of abuse to a full force gale. My faith in God will not be shaken but I feel that my standard of righteousness is being used against me and by a so-called christian wife at that. It would be somewhat more understandable if she never claimed the title Christian. I don't understand how she justifies it. And for all the folks that want to label us frustrated souls venting in the forum. Let me tell you if I could be heard, don't you think I would have told her already? Or how do you know I haven't told her and told her and told her and she refuses to recognize what I am saying. I can't raise my voice to her because she threatens to call the cops. And don't think she won't, she did it and they came to the house and escorted her and the kids out. The police acted as if I were a criminal when I did nothing wrong. We had an argument that day but it did not escalate beyond me telling her in a forceful tone that I wasn't putting up with her junk and then I simply tuned her out the rest of the day. She informed me that she was leaving and taking the kids. I told her she did not have my permission to take the kids with her anywhere and then she called the cops. She came home a few days later and I agreed to go to counseling....again with her. We just finished a year of counseling and even did a recommitment ceremony in the church. Our counselor is an ordained minister. I say all this to say I am not sure what we're missing but it sure is missing something. I can't make my wife hold to her standard. I'm not perfect but I am putting in the effort. I don't know what else to do next to giving in so I will keep trying and praying. I will keep trying to talk to her. The ventilation is helpful and maybe me and my wife will talk soon. Problem is, everytime I speak, she corrects me. Tells me how I'm not using the proper rules of engagement we agreed to use. Gets so hung up on critique that she never really seems to hear what I'm saying and will not address the issue. Labels me a massaginist (sp?) and other such stuff. If I am fortunate enough to complete a sentence without interruption she usually dismisses what I say by denying it or throwing up some other issue. Yes, not only am I a fool for marrying her but I feel like a double fool for recommiting to her. But better to be a fool trying to do it God's way than my own way. I know I am a fool. I am only human. I love her even though she treats me pretty awful. I feel most sorry for my precious kids. I hope all of you find peace and happiness in your lives. He calls us to love one another and that means the same way he loves us, completely, unconditionally, and regardless of how much we are hateful, mean, and ugly. I'm guilty of all of the above. God's blessings.... anon

I guess i get to take responsibility for letting myself fallin love with a godless 2yr. old, whos mommy and daddy are more important to her than her own family. Ive been patient and learned how to control my anger and resentment, Ive gone to her wacked out counselors. Nothing I can do is good enough for her. Ive been asking her to come home for a year now and stop this divorce, but shes convinced herself this is whats best for us and our 3yr. old son. Our precious son will get screwed in this deal, theres no amount of love and understanding I can show her to that will help things. So be it. Divorce me! F---up our lives and our innocent childs! May God have mercy on your soul. I dont know what else to do. Hopefully God will bring a sane loving woman into mine and my sons life. I will continue to pray for her

I guess i get to take responsibility for letting myself fallin love with a godless 2yr. old, whos mommy and daddy are more important to her than her own family. Ive been patient and learned how to control my anger and resentment, Ive gone to her wacked out counselors. Nothing I can do is good enough for her. Ive been asking her to come home for a year now and stop this divorce, but shes convinced herself this is whats best for us and our 3yr. old son. Our precious son will get screwed in this deal, theres no amount of love and understanding I can show her that will help things. So be it. Divorce me! F---up our lives and our innocent childs! May God have mercy on your soul. I dont know what else to do. Hopefully God will bring a sane loving woman into mine and my sons life. I will continue to pray for her

Anyone else here experience physical pain from a bitching wife?

I see bi-polar a lot here... I've been trying to pin-point what is wrong with my wife. Post partum, manic depression, bi-polar, or just plain old fucking crazy? My kids are my life and when I see the little one get worried for her mom's safety I swear to god my heart fucking bleeds.
Sometimes I wish I could just pull her outside & smack the fuck out of her. Words just can't penetrate through. I'm lost, she's a great mother and a great person but her bouts of insanity are unwarrented and exagerated. She needs help, we need help.

OK, get ready, this is a long message :(

My wife and I used to date way back in the ‘80’s. At that time I really loved her but as any person (especially male) in his late teens/early 20’s I also valued my own space. As a result, I often felt stifled and suffocated when she wanted to spend each and every day with me. This was not even regarding dating othes! I was very happy to be her one and only. Rather, I love to go fishing but the 1-2 times I went with her she seemed bored beyond tears and I felt like I should just cut it short and leave for home, so those times were not fun. I am not talking about fishing each and every night, just maybe 1-2 times a week. Anyway, it got to the point that she would make me feel guilty and uncaring of her if I went fishing on a Saturday afternoon by myself (instead of always spending it with her), so eventually I got so suffocated that one day I just basically abandoned her. No phone calls or anything. She called me when I didn’t arrive at my usual time and I didn’t answer the phone. After a day or so I answered the phone and she started crying and I think I just said I didn’t want to see her anymore. She started to sort of plead for an explanation and I just hung up. This went on for a few days until she stopped. From that point on I did not call her or speak to her for years. It was almost like I had died or went into outer space – and she lived practically down the block from me. I understand that it was an awful thing to do but I realize now that I was too cowardly to just tell her honestly that I needed to have my own time to myself and we were not surgically attached at the hip. You may fault me for not trying to explain this anyway but I know her well enough that she would just have felt that I was being unfair and that I should “want” to spend 24/7 with her. I just could not take being with someone practically for every waking hour of my day.
Anyway, a few years later after dating a lot I met my first wife at work. The marriage ended in divorce after 7 years. No children, fortunately, now that I look back at it. I never really put my “all” into the marriage as I was not nearly as physically attracted to her as my ex girlfriend. There was just no spark. Also, she was kind of “goofy” and often embarrassed me in public. We started growing apart because I became critical of everything she did and said. Eventually, she wanted a divorce and at that time I was devastated not so much because I wanted her more than my ex but more because it was just so humbling and such a blow to my self esteem to be rejected like that (hmmmm, sort of what I did to my ex). My wife moved out and we started divorce proceedings. I realized that we could never have a future together because we were so different. About 3 months after she moved out I wrote my ex girlfriend a 9 page letter telling her that I really always loved her but when we were young I just needed “some space” and all that stuff that only a few people really believe. A couple of weeks later we were talking on the phone. She told me that when she opened the letter she broke down, fell to the floor and cried for an hour, so badly that she had to call her best girlfriend to come to her house to console her (PS – she never married). A few weeks of talking and we had our first meeting in her car at the beach. We held hands and it felt like 20 years ago, it was instant electricity. A few more dates here & there and about 2 months afterwards we slept together. To make a long story short, we spent a lot of time together but we respected each others’ need for occasional privacy and, while we did spend a lot of time together, we were not glued to the hip like in years past. It seemed perfect.
About 3 months after the first time we made love, she became pregnant with my child (we wanted to one night, we didn’t have anything and, well, you know the rest…) Since I was still involved in my divorce she decided to abort. It devastated me and her. We realized that it was not the time for a child in our lives. It was a few weeks later that she told me that, a week after I dumped her so long ago, she had a miscarriage (with my child) at her house. It was a horrible few weeks while we sorted this whole bad chapter in our seemingly rough lives together. We took balloons to the beach a week after the abortion and set them free. We both cried as they drifted upwards.

Eventually things got back to normal. Leaving out a lot of detail here, we kept dating, I eventually got divorced, then my girlfriend and I got married in Sept 01. In Oct 01, she was pregnant. So much for spending time together as “just” husband and wife for at least a little while. In Dec 01 (during her first internal examination) we found out that “we” were having twins! We were both exhilarated and devastated at the same time. It seems that from that point on (aside from the normal day-to-day nausea and other problems of pregnancy) “L” had changed. Even after the kids were born she seemed ‘different”. No longer affectionate or carefree, she took on a more serious, down-trodden demeanor. I guess it was because we were both thrust into the world of parenthood with little or no time to adjust to just being a married couple, but she seemed to plunge into a mild depression. I became the rescuer, she the victim. It was uplifting for me for a while but I grew tired of always being the one who was pulling her out of the abyss – I began to ask myself “OK, what about me?”

Fast forward to the past year and we are both not doing well at all. We have sought counseling at my repeated suggestion but she was very closed-mouthed most sessions, eventually she stopped going because she said that nothing was working and blamed it ALL on me (PS – it takes two to tango – or to make or break a marriage). She has said several times that she wants me out, she doesn’t like me anymore, she wants a divorce, etc. A few weeks ago she “moved” her things downstairs to our guestroom so now we sleep apart. Problem is, our twin 4-1/2 year old boys sleep in their upstairs bedroom and for a while now they had been coming into our bed at all odd hours of the night. Some nights when I really REALLY needed my sleep (i.e., if I had a long meeting the next day at work) I would just get up and go to one of their twin beds so my wife had to deal with their tossing and turning all night, meaning she didn’t get much sleep. And, alternately, on some other nights SHE would go to one of their beds, so I was the one who didn’t get a good night’s rest. We shared the burden. However, now that she is sleeping downstairs, I NEVER get a decent night’s sleep. If they both come into my bed in the middle of the night and I get up to go to one of their beds, most of the time one of them follows me back and tries to shoehorn himself into a twin bed with me, so most nights now I just deal with it while he tosses and turns like any toddler will do. As a result, I have been getting progressively less sleep each night while my wife sleeps like a queen until morning downstairs in the guest room. One day I complained about it and she told me she would switch beds with me, but then retracted it later saying she “doesn’t want to give up her new bed” and said she would temporarily sleep upstairs for two weeks, then we would switch.

This is no way to live. We are a loveless and sexless couple just sleeping under the same roof. I am exhausted and she doesn’t seem to care. A few times in the middle of the night one of my sons would ask me “Where is Mommy?” or “Why doesn’t Mommy sleep up here anymore” to which I always reply “you have to ask Mommy”. It was not until today that one of my sons actually told me “Mommy always keeps her mouth closed when I ask her” meaning she ignores the subject. So, she is hurting HIM as well as our marriage – or what is left of it.

Another thing that I find very distressing is, until this fall, she had the kids all day (she is a SAHM) so when I came home she was pretty tired and aggravated from taking care of the boys single-handedly all day. However, since September the boys have been going to pre-K so they get on the bus at 8:45AM every day and get home at 3:10PM. So let’s see, I leave the house at 8:15AM for work but I dress the kids each and every day while she gets their lunches and bags ready, so she’s only alone with them for 40 minutes in the morning, and I get home from work at 5:45PM, so she is only alone with them again for 2 hours 40 minutes. YET, she does almost NOTHING in the house while they are at pre-K all day. No laundry, no cleaning – NOTHING. I often want to ask the age-old husband question “what the hell did you do all day!!??” but don’t want to start another fight.

I am not looking forward to it, but I have been told by others on this site that I just need to leave her as we just don’t get along and neither of us seem to want to change. I am willing to try to work on things but she seems too depressed to want to do anything. I started going back to the counselor (he is a psychologist so I can see him by myself) and the last time L said anything about it all she had to offer was “I don’t know what you plan on accomplishing seeing a marriage counselor by yourself”. I have been going for the past month. Talking about it does seem to help but I realize that I am in this alone…

She has become this angry, snippy, aggressive, irrational person. I try to reason things out and she just shoots back nasty responses. If I forget ONE thing, she say that “I don’t remember anything at all!!” yet, when she asks me something I KNOW I have told her 4-5 times already, for some reason it’s “just confirmation”! So there exists a double standard – she can forget things, I am not supposed to. Maybe it’s because I am so freakin’ tired all the time??

How do I get a divorce without financially ruining my whole family? I am the sole breadwinner and things are tight as it is.

Thanks.

I have to add to the women who call themselves "bitches":

Why do you think your husbands found it necessary to even go to this site? If they were happy, they wouldn't, so instead of wondering that you MAY POSSIBLY be part of the problem, you immediately say "it's him, not me!". That is the problem! You see, I would be willing to bet that most of the men on this board are sensitive, caring males but they are stuck in relationships where the woman is, quite bluntly, irrational. I see my wife this way. Yes, yes, I have heard it all before - "men think with their heads, woman with their hearts". I realize that we are essentially different. But that does not mean that man and woman cannot live happily together. It IS possbible - I just wish I knew what the solution is.

I see a lot of "TALK to her!" or "LISTEN to your wife!". OK. I have talked and listened for years. Most of time I do all the talking, and all I get is silence or the usual "I don't want to talk about it". So what options does that leave someone who is trying to work through the problem?

I am not going to sink low and use insults or curses as some of you have. I'm taking the high road and giving you the benefit of the doubt, and asking you politely to explain to me what is is that drives men to this board!!!

Thanks

I feel very very sorry for all you men who feel you are married to "bitches". This is my second marriage, and my husband's third, and I absolutely adore the ground he walks on. I would do anything for him, BUT, and this is crucial - also he would do anything for me! I get unlimited emotional support and backup, consideration, and laughter. In a relationship, you either grow together or grow apart, and sometimes you just have to take stock and say to yourself "I am 30 years old (or whatever age), do I want to spend the next 30 years of my life like this?" Sometimes the hardest part of "dealing with the bitch" is admitting that maybe your relationship either needs work, or needs giving up.

You only get one life - this isn't a practice run!!

yeah, i had been married to a gi

boohoo Jeff Laskey...

you forgot to mention how you assaulted ur wife, cheated on her and lied to anyone remotely close to you...

you are THE master manipulator and top Moron of the decade.

Stupid Fuck.

My wife...god where to start. Nevermind

That's hilarious, I wonder how many Jeff Laskeys we have in here. Describing his God-awful wife, then come to find out that he's the ass. Not to mention lacking the foresight to prevent his wife from finding out what he's saying about her by NOT putting his full name on his post. HaHaHaHaHa!

jeff laskey's wife is an awesome person.

he is the fucking freak.

I believe it, I also believe that there are plenty more just like him that have posted here.

Who, if I may ask, is speaking? If you don't to answer in fear of Jeff's wrath I understand.

I'm just a yokel in southwestern Ohio that's being nosey.

actually...he is a scary dude.

but...i knew him a few yrs back.

he screwed up a few folks lives here in BC...and has the balls to come here and whine.

if his wife treats him the least bit awfully, which i can't imagine she would, he deserves 15 lifetimes full of it.

My wife can be such a bitch at times.

My wife can be such a bitch at times.

My wife can be such a bitch at times.

Is your wife a bitch at times, cocksucker?

Divorce Her. She could get much worse. She is most likely a cheater who stays with you for financial reasons. Act quietly. Don't confront her. Hide all your assests. Find a good divorce lawer and a good accountant so you can hid all your assets. Take the bitch to the cleaners.

ok i dont write or spell well.
my wife is moody,dirty (poor cleaning habits),the kids have to make there own breakfast, 9yr old girl(hers) and 3yr old girl(ours), if i am there i make it of coarse, i pay everything, she dont work ,she is on the computer mosly doing tags and graphics stuff with a group of online freinds ,justed joined girl scouts for the 9 yr old 3 times a week. the house is left filthy everyday. The laundry is out of control and spread throughout the house. i do my own lAundry if i dont i will go naked, and cook formyself. why is she here? dont cook any solid meals. i have by my own hand restored our home with all the fancy up to date front load washers etc.. nice everything. computers and electronics you name it. 3 autos , well everything. i love her to death, but she has a history of filth in her family(close releatives). does that matter on her cleaning?
i give her everything she needs and wants. we love each other but she is filthy and she knows it and cooking (ok) rarely thou, i cook clean take care of the kids while she is out (alot). she gets sick and before she was sick the house was filthy,so when she was better she yells at me for not cleanin, omg i am gonna go insane, someone help me!!!!!!!!!!!

My wife is also a bitch. We don't have children yet -- I adore children, I can't wait to have them. However, I can't have children with this woman, I couldn't bear subjecting children to her wrath.

I love her - I can't bear to leave her. I can't describe it in any other words than to say that I just love her. Memories, scents, even furniture.. reminders. How could I give up this life?

On the other hand, I cannot stop thinking of other women. I am searching for an escape. I actually 'hooked up' with another woman, but it only filled me with emptiness. I didn't love her, I didn't even have feelings for her. She was a kind, gentle woman who would probably be an excellent mother -- but how could I ever drop my loving (but bitchy) wife, for uncertainty and possisbly even emptiness?

I daresay I consider jumping from the balcony. Its a much quicker decision -- at least the conseqeuences are well known, and fairly satisfactory.

I bet your wifes are somewhere on MY ASSHOLE HUSBEND SITE.

I bet your wifes are somewhere on MY ASSHOLE HUSBEND SITE.

Did you ever stop to think of what you done to make your wife so bitchy. If you can't make her happy you can't make anyone happy.

i know jeff laskey

what a terd.

and i do not mean that humerously.

assWIPE

Women take heed!!!!!

i know jeff laskey

what a terd.

and i do not mean that humerously.

assWIPE

Women take heed!!!!!

mebeee ppeople should juss start a stupid rant line about this Jeff Laskey cunt?

Jeff, you are one dumb fuck to be here and known.

go and make up wif ur wife and kiss her ass...

'cause it sounds like you have nothinf else.

Honestly, women are just fucked - you marry a nice virgin whos a good girl from a good family thinking "ill be the first to fuck her, yeah!!"

but only one problem, when u fuck her once, she'll start and continue to fuck you for the rest of your life

FUCKEN SLUTS

i agree with the last post. i married a 'nice' girl who HAD respect for my parents but one year into the marriage, it all went pearshaped.now my wife and mum always argue and havent seen each for more than a year.i am the middle man getting bum fucked from both sides.Any suggestions on how to bring peace in the house.i have been married for 5 long miserable years..help please..

Hello: I am a Wife, NOT a BITCH or a Bi-Polar person. I do however suffer from Panic Disorder (minor) . I am married to a COP! he was NOT a COP when we married he was kind hearted sweet and FUN!! NOW he is hard ANGRY nad it is MOST impossible to hold a happy fun free converstaion. I am a college Grad a Mother to our child and I think preaty happy go lucky. He is constantly looking for something to MAKE HIM HAPPY.. A motor cycle, a new this or that, hockey with the other asshole cops.. what ever I say DO IT.. Now we have a $20,000 bike in the garage that has been ridden three times in the last 3 years, and numerous "things" laying around..hmmmm It can't be sex we have it, maybe it is me? Not sure but I can't stand HIM right now..Everyone is a freak, scumbag, loosed, druggie what ever!!! drop the cop shit Columbo and see that your family is slipping away.. UGGGG MEN!!!!

My wife came up with the idea to read Men are From Mars Women are From Venus......well most the book says is....women stop doing this stop doing that blah blah.....then for the Men.....if she's really bitchy ignore her and let her bitch....then after she's done she will be fine for a little while then it will start all over again.... biggest thing women learn how to treat their husband from their mother.....look at mother and how she treats her husband and thats exactly what you will end up with. Women are incapable of changing themselves, you can't change them, you can't MAKE them happy. Oh FYI my wife got too page 17 in the book and put it down and never read it again......

Did some of you men think your wives may have postpartum depression? When she bitches and nags, is it because she's told you 1000 times already what would make her happy and you refuse to so much as look at her or listen to a word she says? Being ignored every day is enough to drive anyone up a tree, especially if they are having your kids and wiping your pee off the toilet for the 1000th time before they can even sit down, to boot...

It isn't exactly the dream life for them either, I'm sure...

Ok,

heres my story, I married my wife 10 years ago, met her in the Park she was roller bladeing. I said hi and we went out things went fine alot of sex and fun for a year or so so we moved in together she had a daughter that went to live with her ex they were never married. She seemed level headed but she didn't like to work and was only working part time, I let it pass. We got married and she got pregenat then she stopped working sex was stopped too, she then for the last 10 years has been a bitch. She still in not working and no sex if I get sex its after a fight and I can't remember when it was last. Theres no physical contact shes always busy really doesn't give a shit for me. I twll het to work but she says if she goes to work she won't need me and I should leave the house is in both or our names & the loan in in my name only. Its fuckin shit!!! She also won't let my sister or her kids come over, she complains always, When theres problem its your son did this, Or you need to fix your house or shit like that, but when she has the issue she will say I'll kick you out of my house and you'll never wee your son again, What a bicth I have the one, This is how a typical day goes,

1.) She yells about the weather too wet, too hot
2.) She yells about the house being too small
3.) She yells about the work she does around the house
4.) She yells I sould make more money
5.) She yells and says she not in the mood for sex
6.) She bicthes she doesn't have time for me cause she busy with the house.
7.) She bicthes she needs a new car
8>0 She bitxhes I leave oil spots from my car in driveway, I should fix all my leaks ( its a old car )
9.) She fuckin bicthes about other people
10>) She bicthes she hates work
11.) She bitches about my driving
12.) She says I can have a intellegent conversation
13.) She is fucked up in the head, My doesn't go to many social events no dancing, no bars, no sex nothing I don't sleep with her I sleep in the basement in an extra room.
14.) She never tells me she loves me, Just bicthes
15.) She bitches always I HAVE NO FUCKIN GLUE WHAT TO DO I AM LOST

I am an adult women, I was a child of divorce-my mother got nothing, we children suffered. I was married to a wealthy man who I loved. I divorced him because he wanted me and every other woman.
He tried to make me end up on the street. I lost almost everything but my respect and education. My lawyers said everything now days is in the mans favor. The woman, even when a housewife raising children never get more then 25% unless a man offers. I am sick of men moaning! Be a man!

My wife tries and blame me for all her bitching I told her she is a chronic mal-content she wants me to go to a doctor because she swears im bi-polar but i think its her because im happy and productive till we get together then she lays into me with negative shit and when i finally cant take it no more ill raise my voice and tell her to shut her yap she says "see your bi-polar"
I guess bi-polr means that i won't bow down and kiss my wifes ass
She bitches about my friends she bitches if i dont want to go everywhere she goes and if I try and do anything alone or have any type of interest in anything besides her even watch tv!! she explodes and yells and screams and bitchs
You know what?
fuck her im going to truck driving school and get the fuck out

My wife is a fucking BITCH just because she can be. I'm 100% disabled and can't work, I get a decent check and provide 1/3 of our income, but I think she is getting bolder and bolder with her disrespect, I'm starting to feel mentally unstable. She is turning into her mother, another foul mouth and hateful Bitch!

Mr. Latenight

My wife of 12 years can be difficult, especially in matters of money, specifically her refusal to spend hers and her insistance on spending mine. I have no intention of leaving because every woman has different baggage. I'd just be trading one set of problems for another and hurt my three kids in the process. Marriage is not like its shown on TV - its work, especially when you're the male. You're expected to give in more often, to submerge your natural trait of leadership.

Many people talkin, few of them know... The soul of a woman was created below. Been dazed and confused for so long it's not true. Wanted a woman never bargained for you.

My fellow brothers. Maintain silence and plan your exits. Once she sees you are leaving (and you must mean it) she will change. But you need to leave for a while if you want a long term change. Make her feel the pain of seperation.

yeah got married on march the tenth scince then my lifes gone down hill although iv got an 8 month old daughter who i love to bits if it wasnt for herr i would have left along time ago my wife is driving me mad shes got us into debt she wont tell me wat she spends it on she hides the mail wat have i done . so i no how u feel mate

yeah got married on march the tenth scince then my lifes gone down hill although iv got an 8 month old daughter who i love to bits if it wasnt for herr i would have left along time ago my wife is driving me mad shes got us into debt she wont tell me wat she spends it on she hides the mail wat have i done . so i no how u feel mate

How about marrying a selfish, ungenerous woman who first blames you for forcing her to have two kids - wonderful girls - and then feels disadvantaged for not having a career, paying job status, etc.. Then at the first mention of getting a job, she yells that she already has a job raising the two kids she was forced to have and that getting a job out of the house would only put more pressure on her. Well, the kids are in school full time now and she absolutely makes no effort to find part time or any other work that fits into their school schedule. Nor does she try to get to know the neighbors, parents of kids' classmates, people in the community at large. Top that off with physical separation for nearly six years in the same house and you'd think I'm completely mad.

OK... give me a suggestion that doesn't require separation from my bitch wife. Now, I've analyzed this thoroughly and I truly believe that she just has shit for brains... not a bitch at heart, if you know what I mean, just too stupid or stubborn to realize she acts like one 85% of the time. She lacks all common sense, no ability to maintain consistency in any thing (except for being an idiot), overly defensive (more than you could imagine), and uncompromising to the point of deconstruction... not to mention she’s an F’n slob. But seriously, (not that I obtain sliver of genius) I feel like I have to lower my intellect to communicate with her. We have an extraordinary, beautiful, toddler son who's well on his way, and with the proper consistent influences, he will be an amazing human being (I guess that's how it is for all children). Now to the question... what can I do to get my wife to realize that her stupidity and shitty attitude will greatly effect our son’s development and/or ruin our potential filled marriage?

My wife is an abosloute princess without the slightest domestic skill. Not a one (the woman could burn a pot of boiling water). She spends literally THOUSANDS of dollars on shoes and designer clothing that she never wears and expects me to basically be her servant. If she wants a drink she holds up her glass Like I'm a freaking waiter. Places dirty dishes outside the bedroom for me to retrieve as if I'm room service and laughs when our daughter demands food from me and refers to me as "kitchen boy", Expects me to get up at 5;00 am so that I can bring her coffee the moment she wakes. I cook 3 times a day for her and the children and every time it's 5 different meals each time. Insists that I rub her feet before bed and allows me to have sex with her about twice a year. I really hate her guts. I'd like to just stuff my backpack with a few things and spend the rest of my life camping as far from her as I can get. If I killed myself she'd bitch about paying for the cremation I imagine. Probably wouldn't identify my body and have me left for a "John Doe". Bitch.

Oh, by the way "Eve", back in 2004 (earlier posting). Hope he divorced your sorry ass. Women always say all that deep and meaningful horse crap once their dirty laundry is aired because they want to seem unbiased and caring. What drove him to this board? YOU did. Spend a bit of time thinking about why we all post here, you cow. To all of the other women looking here... you have absolutly NO concept of the preassure thats on your husbands or boyfriends in this world when it comes to providing for your asses. Why do you think that men usually die earlier than you? Crap, I'd love to just sit home, make freakin' cookies, change diapers, grocery shop and play with the damn kids all day. Better than busting my butt 63 hours a week to come home and have you bitch about how little we do for you.

Q:"what can I do to get my wife to realize that her stupidity and shitty attitude will greatly effect our son’s development and/or ruin our potential filled marriage?"

A:Nothing. She's obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed. Just try to raise your son the best you can and start setting money aside for the therapy sessions that his mother is setting him up for attending. Her parents screwed her up ...and she feels that shit rolls downhill.

Simplify your life and stop taking it out on "Eve".

She makes sense presenting the blame as belonging to both in a relationship.

Also, the man she was married to, from what other's posted, seems, ahem, less than an ideal husband. One posting issued a warning to women. I think it was admirable of her to present both sides.

I'm really glad I stumbled onto this site. It's funny in a tragic kind of way. As with most of the men on this site, my 9-year, 2nd marriage with kid in tow relationship has seen better days. I feel content in my misery that I am not alone. Obviously many others are in the same boat. I do feel very sorry for the one military guy who is in Iraq and his wife doesn't give a crap about him. I have been to Afghanistan and the enemy there tried to kill me. It's weird surviving that experience, only to come home and have your wife bitch at you the whole time about stupid stuff. Now, it seems like she is the enemy, not the friggin' Taliban.
For the women who have ended up on this site adding their two-cents, whatever! If it makes you feel like you got the last word in, good for you. That's how most of our wives are anyway, and it's why we are on here typing stuff. To the chick that married a COP, well I'm sorry HE has seen the real world and is a changed man because of it. Life is harsh. War is hell. Marriage to a miserable, lazy, selfish, inconsiderate woman is both!
By the way, Happy Thanksgiving to all the deployed soldiers with uncaring wives/girlfriends and all the miserable husbands out there, who look into the mirror in the morning and don't recognize the MAN that once stood there. You're not alone. Dig deep, stay strong, press-on and overcome.

A Soldier...

Thank you for your input~And, although I am in Canada...Happy Thanksgiving.

Women, get a grip. Stop and consider the bitching you do is more about your own insecurities and the refusal to do something about it yourselves. Whining and complaining that others are not going to fix your own issues is completely ridiculous.

You are the only ones who can stop the nasty cycle...

I love my partner. I tell him every day how amazing he is...even if I am not feeling so. I say "Thank You" and use my manners...I touch him...I love him!!! Guess what, it is reicprocated!!! It is given back!!!

Put some effort into your relationships and less into whinning about it...

I know Jeff Laskey and Eve - she's not perfect, and in fact I don't like her, but he's the most manipulative, scheming, lying mofo that I ever met. He exploits everyone in his life. He has all sorts of ways to twist things and works hard at getting an advantage over people. I watched him work the court system the first time he and Eve separated, and he did everything he could to fuck her over. He has no respect for other people at all. He steals from anyone stupid enough to trust him, and he he's got the golden gift of gab, so people do trust him. He's a fucking creep if there ever was one. I wish Eve all kinds of stability and happiness. He will go on to exploit many, many others, and convince all of them they are lucky to have shiny, special Jeff in their lives. Evil fuck.

P.S. Damn, it feels good to tell the truth about Jeff! If you read this, Eve, I think you have some issues, but I don't think you're a bad person. I understand how he might have pushed you to the edge. Jeff is a creep through and through. Friends, lovers and employers will regret the day they met him. Someone should warn them about him.

I don't have it as bad as most who post. But, the insecurity thing kills me. I cannot go out much because if my wife sees another attractive woman, she automatically becomes a complete bitch. Often, she sees the woman before I do and becomes unbearable. Sitting at dinner, my wife goes 180 degrees from warm, charming, smiling to a horrid, cold, hard, stone faced bitch. I cannot imagine what I did or what has happened. Then, I see she is looking past my shoulder. I turn my head and see some skank with tits hanging out giggling and drawing attention to herself. I could have married a skank like that 100 times over, but chose my sweet wife. Now, my sweet wife becomes instantly unattractive and hateful. As soon as she sees me looking to see what she is looking at, the hate and attitude get turned up even more. Nothing I do assuages her. I tell her I do not want a woman all skanked out. I touch her hand and tell her how unattractive the skanks are, how they are overcompensating for some deeply held feeling of inadequacy. I tell my wife how much I love her and how happy I am that I am not with a skank like the one across the room. She stares blankly at me, showing no sign of belief in what I say. I cannot go out anymore without fear that the evening will end up spoiled and in a fight.

I cannot go out with friends. My wife believes I am out looking for the skank.

I cannot interact with women outside the presence of my wife and then relate a story about that interaction. If I do, the hate and insecurity tell me that I am conspiring to cheat on her.

I cannot interact with women with my wife around. She thinks I am flirting if I make a joke or the other woman is flirting if she laughs at my dumb joke.

Although some on here complain about no sex, imagine the opposite. A bitch wife whose hatred, insecurity and emotions make her entirely unattractive. Now imagine the most unattractive woman in the world trying to force you into sex. Her hatred and insecurity make her ugly. I cannot find the emotion, drive or energy to get hard, let alone be enthusiastic about being intimate with her. She wants to have sex. I do not.

Trapped in my own home and body by a woman I love and adore, a woman who devalues my feelings for her whenever her insecurity prompts her to believe a skank wants my cock and to believe that I actually desire to go there. I am paralyzed. I am paralyzed and trapped because when she is not insecure, life is beautiful. She can be so perfect. She can smile and I melt. Her laughing makes me a human being. Her willingness to climb mountains, sharing and admiring the cold snow and warm summer afternoons cannot be matched. A good night, with close intimate sex and touching cannot compare... well, those nights shall not even be cheapened by comparison rights. I love you. I hate you. I love you. I know that I am not perfect either, but if you want us to stay together, you will lose the insecurity as I cannot cure it for you. Otherwise, I am little better than an addict tolerating the shit times for those brief moments of being high and happy again. So too, for all the women reading this (and if you got here by spying on your husband's web history, web cache or whatever well, either you actually care or you truly are a crazy bitch).

Finally, to all our military (boys and girls) separated from loved ones by a war motivated through greed, fear and politics, god bless and safe return.

My wife is an insensitive child like monster; if she doesn't get it "her way", or it involves (God forbid!) my mother in a conversation, the sh*t hits the fan. Otherwise she is wonderful, but such a nightmare in dealing with life, it's a horrible thing. My advice to single guys is carefully evaluate how your future Mrs. does under pressure or conversations, and accept that she may be a completely different animal after the wedding (such is the case with my wife).

to December 2, 2007 12:16 PM:

You and your wife have a lot in common: you both hate women.

To the poster of Dec 1st's, well...post.

Eve thanks you. She is still suffering @ the hand of Jeff and his manipulation of the courts, his golden tongue and that he still has a habit of dating lawyers when he is angry @ Eve...

I would recommend you contact eve.

She may have been pushed over the edge then, rude and hurt you...she is a fierce and lovely creature now.

The power of healing and being away from Laskey...hmmm.

I would contact her...You know how.

I know this Jeff Laskey.

Recon++2003++Yup. Mr. I am "SUPER DAD"...as his children frolicked naked around FULLY drug induced people...

(and how fucked up was he you may ask while responsible for his 2 girls?)

A: HOLY F##K! HOLY F%%K!!! OMG>

YUCK.

YUCK.

YUCK.

Not to mention his bragging about how he fucked some hired "legal student" he chose at his job to help AUTISTIC KIDS...YAAAAAA~~~HOLY CREEEEP.

I am so sorry, Eve.

There are some people that you that you never quite get the chill factor out of your system.

He is one of them.

I know Jeff and Eve and think this is all too immature...

Obviously if you are still referencing 2003 then you have alot of issues...get over it...that was the past.

I have listened to Eve for the past year and a half since Jeff left and it is like listening to an obessesed person....sorry eve it's true and now I can finally say it.

Eve told me about this site months ago when she was upset. At the time I told her that she was better than Jeff and deserved more...after reading what her friends have written here I am embarrased for her. It is hard for me to listen to her and support her when all I see is her keeping up the hate.

Sorry Eve. I know that this may hurt you when you read it but Jeff has moved on and you are still stuck in the past.

Funny, dear poster of Dec. 24, 2007. Because u keep "threatening" to sue everything anyone associated with Eve. You, my lovely, are the most blinded and myopic bitch Laskey has EVER fucked...How long will you keep being used...how long will you allow him to drain your resources.

and to think you are immune to his disater?

We know who you are. My Love...you are simply too lovely and too classy to keep covering his ass. When will you get it. 1 phone call from Eve and Jeff will be at her beck and call..."come back, I love you..." and you are left alone and used.

It;s all just a little bit of history repeating...

U are a slave...His slave.

How pathetic to be used by such scum. And after all the posts here: NO ALARM BELLS ARE GOING OFF? After what you particiapted in: NO ALARM BELLS ARE GOING OFF? JEFF IS OBESSESED WITH EVE...always has been always will be...

Why are you spending so much legal time on HER????

And the posters here have never reffered to being Eve's friends...only that they have been "touched" by the wreck that is LASKEY.

Grow up.

Open your eyes.

You have seen your future.

Save her children from it.

Have you ever actually talked to Eve?

She is brilliant. Laskey fucked her up...no doubt. But you are a fool to believe he is all that he claims to be...something tells me you are here searching for truth. Otherwise all would be oil off a duck's back...C'est la vie.

Talk to Eve. You are on a sinking ship.

He is using you....Dear.

BTW...EVE LEFT THAT ASSHOLE. He kept living for free on her maternity benefits while fucking a new lawyer girlfriend...

3 months after the birth of their SON!!! And...let us all clock it....1 month after she left...on their "wedding anniversary". I SO know who is posting this shit.

GOOOOOOOOD LORD...How fucked up do you have to be to believe Laskey's shit?

HOLY SHIT: SS is that you...

LMAO...

U are questing for the truth to quench what your gut is telling you...

Laskey is a LOSER.

We know all about this...

Talk to Eve. Legally and Morrally he must be ripping you apart by now.........................

DO SOMETHING.

U showed your face.

albeit anon.

Speak up

You need to quietly tell your wife that it's always the quiet, carefully contained, responsible men who suddenly snap.

Tell her that you need her to offer you at least the minimum
respect and empathy she would offer any pet or fleeting acquaintance.

Tell her that unless she shapes up, you have a nice 3x6 plot picked out for her in the middle of some very remote woods.

Tell her that the way it will happen is this: One day when she least expects it....she'll simply be out running errands or shopping, and just like the TV show "Dexter", without preamble or warning she'll feel a sharp prick in her neck that comes at her from behind, and the next time she wakes up, she'll be duct taped and shrinkwrapped on the table of a shack in the middle of the woods, with you looking down on her as you crank up the power saws with which you'll be slowly dismantling her. Tell her that throughout this experience, her mouth will be ducttaped and no one will hear her raging screams of anguish.

Then tell her that what you've just said is just a scene of a best-selling novel you're writing, one that you'll become fabulously wealthy writing some day.

She won't know if you're kidding or not, but believe me, the fact that you've demonstrated you can put together a scheme this calculated and clever will give her second thoughts about using you as a doormat.

All morbid fantasies aside, the woman you've described does not deserve one more minute of your energy or compassion. She is clearly totally self-absorbed and possibly bipolar. Sell everything you own on ebay to get the most aggressive attorney possible, divorce her, and take custody of your children.

She is a sociopathic personality who will only pass on her own narcissistic pathology to your children if you allow her to infect them with her own long term schizophrenic behavior patterns.

Please care for your children first. You can do it. Just forge a safe
path, and get away from this toxic woman.

To all of you who are complaining about someone who is talking on here instead of at home; Most of these guys have made something of an honest effort! There's absolutling nothing wrong with venting anonmously. It might make you feel better. It's frustrating to work manual labor 60+ hours a week, only to come home and be told how worthless you are by someone on the couch. Society as a whole is responsible for this. People spend way too much time in front of the television and think thats the way life is suppose to be. It sets unrealistic expectations for men and women. You usually dont see people getting up and acctually working on TV, Do you?
Some of you need to sit down and try to have an adult conversation about this. Find out what each others expectations are and be quite clear. If the expectations are complete nonsence or you are unable to have this type of conversation, Get a lawyer, Get a shrink, but don't hide on the computer. Venting is healthy, and it's nice to know you arent the only one, but venting is not the End-all for these type off problems.

You want a vent? My wife is a total bitch too. She nags about everything and likes to belittle me in public. I have stopped going out with her together with friends of mine for this reason. Its never good enough what I do. How often do I hear "I wish you were more like your father/friend/had a better job/lost some weight. She resets the goalpoasts: even if I do as she wishes, she is still unhappy about it. My sister is stupid, my mother not interested and my father lazy (yes this does contradict what she said earlier). She is really vindictive and mean when she talks about my family and about me. She whines and whines and whines. We haven't had any sex is months and no good sex in years. I I gave this bitch everything she fucking wanted but the cow is still unhappy. The slut had an affair and I forgave her. She wanted a house so we bought a house. She wanted a child so we had a child. I love my baby more than anything in the world but I am sick to death of my nagging whining bitch of a wife. She gets into tantrums like a fucking two year old and throws my stuff around the house. This high and mighty bitch thingks the world of herself but she also was throwing our kid around to get at me. Then she said she wants a second child. I am not going to give it to her. What th fuck am I still doing with her?

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i 'd a shot her

in fact, i think i will

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I will simply say that my wife is a crazy, self-serving bitch and I wish a meteor would fall from the sky and rid me and the rest of the world of her stupid ass. Bipolar my ass. How about some people are just sorry as hell and could give two shits about how their actions affect other people.

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I have a wife that had an affair with her boss about 4 yrs ago. I have to admit that I didn't treat her they way I should have, so I don't blame her for going out. However, I do blame her for the things she said to me. At the time I was trying to get custody of my son whom she said she loved. She told me that she couldn't stand my son (who decided on his own to call him Mom). Anyway, long story short, she was quite cruel to me, such as telling me she'd sleep with him anytime he wanted, and that she felt like she was cheating on him, with me.... her HUSBAND!!. Anyway, I have custody of my son, and I've taken her back. I really think she came back so I wouldn't hook up with my ex (who by the way is soooo much better looking, and wants me back, but treated me like crap too). It's been awhile now, but because I've taken her back, she seems to think she can treat me anyway she wants to, because she knows that I need her. I'm beginning to get real tired of feeling miserable and taken advantage of. I'v made a HUGE effort to be a good husband, but I feel like she only wants the affection, attention, and things like that from someone new. She's slept with lots of men. I was the new guy once, but now I'm used up. I could tell her she's beautiful a hundred times a day, but I think she needs a new man to tell her after awhile. We have children together, so it breaks my heart to think of our home being broken, but I feel like my soul is totally sucked dry. Is it just me, or does anybody else see that if we just did it the way the Bible says, and wait to have sex, and boys sacrifice their desire out of respect and LOVE for the woman, and a woman, seeing the sacrifice, and devoting her life to him as well as him to her? I think that trust has been sucked out of society because of our refusal to follow the basics. God help us.

fuk i have the sme problem my wife is hadycapt though always getting hurt and stuff but a constant bitch i got few friends now a days but what the F--- am i suppose to do leave her ass whose going to take care of her if she gets hurt again???