Most of the issues we all post on here are about our inablitites to deal with relationships. How we hate someone, how no one loves us, how people are mean, how we're so unhappy because we're alone. Isn't it odd how crappy we all are at relationships? I mean in a lot of ways they're the most important aspect of our lives. We desire human contact in so many forms and we need it in order to survive. And yet we all suck at it. why is that?? It's like sucking at breathing. we need oxygen to survive but we only get enough 20% of the time and the rest of the time we're near death without this fundamentally important thing. I don't know if I'm making any sense but I just don't get why so many of us are so unhappy and so alone. If we're all desiring companionship and love and friendship then shouldn't we all be fulfilling one another's desires and it should all be perfect??
Posted by anonymous at June 4, 2005 11:30 AM | TrackBackThe problem is that we are all so desperate to be loved that we settle for less than we deserve. We take what's available; instead of hooking up with Mr./Ms. Right, we settle for Mr./Ms. Right Now. Young women are especially bad about this. They think that they cannot be complete until they have a man. The trick is to become complete, and then look for that life partner. No one can truly love you for who you are until you know and love yourself.
Posted by: at June 4, 2005 12:19 PMWell said. However we must realize that the integrety of the family unit is in decline in this country. Disfunctional behavior is rampant and began in our youth.It has blossomed at an exponential rate to the point where no one knows how to love another anymore. Marriage is just a promise to try and behave. No one really loves anyone else. Promises come charging in on the backs of ulterior motives proclaiming their good intentions and the only truth is found in video games,sex, drugs and alcohol and that truth is that we are a pathetic,undeveloped yet undeniably intelligent but savage race. We can expect no more of ourselves. So continue as you are. lie to those whom you think you love and satisfy your own greed and believe correctly that no one can love you. Ibeleive this to be true for the vast majority of humanity.
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