Well here's my story. At the beginning of the year, i got involved with a long distance girlfriend who was just exiting a 6-7 year relationship. After a few trips halfway across the country to visit her, I decided to move to be with her. I left my consulting business and my family behind and thought I was making a move to be with someone who I could trust and give my love to.
She had just lost her job and had no way of supporting herself. I moved in, took care of the rent and bills, got us moved, and have been taking care of everything for her.
I've ended up bugging the computer she uses at home. It's mine anyway, and I got tired of being accused of being untrusting when I knew something just were never adding up in my head. What I've found is that she lies to people. Little white lies and sometimes big ass lies. Like when she told a mutual friend she was four months pregnant with her ex's baby, and not to tell me about it. I know its bs, but why the lie? She flirts with guys online...more than I thought...and its enough to make me wonder why she keeps me around if she's so interested in these others.
She lies to her mom and dad about things to make it seem life is great. I take her to and from work 6 days a week while I'm trying to build up my client base. Why? Because her car isn't registered, she has no insurance, and her license is expired and can't renew it until she clears up a fine. I could go on and on about the things I've found, but in the end here's where I'm at. I'm 1500 miles away from home, with someone I don't trust, broke and trying to rebuild a business from nothing. If I kick her out, I'm alone and won't be able to afford the bills. Of course I've paid all the bills up until now, but her new job will finally help pay for them cause I'm out of funds from my last business. Plus, there's nowhere she can go or do anything because she doesn't have the money.
Fuck me, I'm so confused right now, I wish I could go back to never have known this girl.
Posted by anonymous at July 13, 2005 12:20 PMYou are caught in the web of another man eating spiderwoman. She is a Sucubus, I hope the pussy was good. I feel for you man.
Posted by: at July 13, 2005 6:40 PMGet out man. I wrote the blog called uncertainty, its in last months archive. Read it. I had many of these same things happen, and felt that she might be flirting/screwing other guys. I also gave her a place to live and helped her with bills. Your girl is depicting many of the same traits that mine did....the sterotypical signs of a user. My advice is to run away, and run away VERY fast!
Posted by: Anon at July 13, 2005 7:46 PMOh absolutely I concur.
You must get her paycheck from her saying that you need it to pay the bills you've been paying all along. Let her keep a little of it if you must. Next arrange for the sale of her computer and any other valuables that you think she can live without. Be strong about this. You don't really love her now do you? She's been lying to you right? Right. Next arrange for your transportation home. Now arrange for your last piece of ass! make it good. You know what I'm talking about don't you? The rest is easy. You simply up and disappear like a fart in the wind.
Good Luck!
His Excellency KodyBear
Posted by: at July 14, 2005 8:40 AMShe's a parasite. Get rid of her.
Posted by: at July 18, 2005 3:53 AMyou sound like a nice guy who got taken. you deserve so much better. it will not be easy to do what you need to do, but trust me, it will only get harder with time. do it now, go home, start again, and be more cautious with your heart next time. users seek out givers. it's a fact of life, no matter how sad and cynical it sounds. it's nature. the way to combat it is to give less of yourself, or at least keep more for yourself. be blessed. do it now. peace.
Posted by: at July 18, 2005 3:58 PM