I'm a 20-something guy. I have a lovely girlfriend who I live with. Life is good, but my problem is that I don't think I can stay faithfull for the rest of my life. We've been together for a good few years and I've never cheated... but lately I've met several girls who I am extremely attracted to and they are to me. It's purely physical, but I really want to sleep with them...
Maybe I should?
Now I'm starting to even doubt my own feelings towards my girlfriend. If I love her so much, why do I so badly want to sleep around with these random girls? Maybe she's not the one for me... maybe I'm not ready for the comittement.
Maybe I'm just a dog.
Our sex life isn't great - her libido is nowhere near as high as mine. Maybe that's what the problem is? Or maybe I just am a sucker for a beautiful woman and don't think I can control myself any longer.
Maybe we should break up?
But when I look at her I know I love her, and it'd break her heart if she knew what I was feeling. I could never do that. Maybe I should sleep with these girls behind her back? What she doesn't know can't hurt her.... but I don't think I could live with my conscience after doing that.
But you should see the girl I met last night... she was stunning. Not my usual type at all, but god...
I want her so badly.
Posted by anonymous at July 16, 2005 11:57 AMYou could fuck a thousand women before you realise there's nothing better than to make love to one
Posted by: at July 16, 2005 1:04 PMSounds like the wisdom of the DragonLady. You could make love to a thousand women before you realize there's nothing better than fucking one in the butt. There is much to consider.
Posted by: at July 16, 2005 1:31 PMThat wasn't the wisdom of the dragonlady, but thanks for thinking it was. and to the poster: 20-something is too young to think you are ready to settle down to one person for the rest of your life. You sound like you want to have your cake and eat it, too. Yes, you are a horny dog. Break up with her and go do your thing, since you are obviously not mature enough to commit to one person and to understand that just because you have an impulse doesn't mean you have to act on it. And for heaven's sake, realize that you are not immortal; use protection and fuck around responsibly.
Posted by: at July 18, 2005 3:48 AMVador says,
Fuggum all, don't worry about your girlfriend. She is fucking around on you. Fuck and let fuck, that is my motto.
And by the way, Vador is fucking your girlfriend.
Posted by: at July 20, 2005 11:59 AMyou sound just like me. i'm a sex addict. a 12 step program has helpedd my problem but it is life long problem from what i understand. you will fight these demons forever. but it will get easier. what i mean is that those demons will want you to fuck around the woman you love. your demons want you to cheat and doubt the woman you love. good luck.
Posted by: at August 4, 2005 6:28 AM