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Why, thank you, Vador! **blush**

there is a damn site more than air between my ears and if you had read the thread properly you will realise I am no silly little girl and I am not about to run off with some guy I met on the internet if I leave my husband it will be for myself and no one else and after 8 years of being with my husband if we do split at sometime in the future we know each other well enough to be able to work out things to suit both of us and still give our daughter two loving caring parents! its not fair to bring a child up in an unhappy home children just do not need to see that I would rather we split up before we became bitter and twisted and hated each other and used my daughter as come kind of pawn in a cruel game, and as for the guy I have met hes not just some internet entity I know several people who know him and he really is the person he comes across as yes we have grown incredibly close and he knows more about me than a lot of people do and past experince has taught me there is more than one soulmate for us all and when you meet someone and everything just fits and it fits as well as the person you are in love with it is one of the scariest things, convention has taught us there is one true love for us out there and when we find it we should hold on to it and it will be all we ever need but I know that there is more than one person out there for us all and it can cause an incredible amount of heartache.
So please do not peg me as some silly little girl I only came here to shout about how I was feeling I thank Dragonlady in taking an interest (and I hope you recover quickly from your surgery) take care and peace and love to all I hope you find your bliss

Oh, Vador, I hate to say it, but you deserved that! And to my new friend, I'm glad you stood up for yourself. It looks like our conversations helped you to wade through the confusion, and I'm glad for that.

Vador, I know from experience that it is possible to develop a deep friendship just from emails and other cyber communication. You have a chance to think over what you want to say, and how to say it in a way that really expresses what you're feeling, without visual cues or interruptions to get in the way of what you want to say. It was a very nice thing you said at the beginning of your post, but then you proceeded to insult the young woman in question. I'm all for being a smartass; a lot of the cynical smartass insulting comments on this site are mine, and I'm pretty pleased with myself for making them! But this young woman, although she started out just wanting to "shout about how" she was feeling, actually started to really think her situation through. She's not an airhead, or a foolish little girl, even if she does have a puctuation problem (sorry, my poor confused friend, I don't mean that as an insult).

I still like you, though.

BTW, have you heard from our incarcerated friend?

Oh lovely Dragonlady lol @ your comments about my punctuation I get into trouble about it on a forum I belong to, the lady who tells me off about it is a teacher and a friend! and I have no real excuse for it except sometimes I'm pulling my daughter out of places she shouldn't be or taking things out of her mouth that she shouldn't be eating *will try and make more effort with her punctuation in future* :D

I'm glad you didn't take it the wrong way!

And Vador, don't be mad at me, okay?

Vador is not angry at anyone. And I have heard from the Kody. You should be receiving a letter from him soon. As for my harsh words for the young lady who is in love with " Marco ", remember this, the grass always looks greener on the other side. I speak from experience. I have been divorced three times. Only one of those times did I jump the fence. I deeply regret my actions. In our world that we live in there are many temptations that can be considered choices. You should think through your situation before you take any action that you might later regret. Did you ever consider that the problems that you have with your husband may stem from your emotional infidelity? I think that you should try to be more faithful in every way. This might bring you great satisfaction. It will not happen over night. It will take lots of hard work. Do it for your child, your family. For these things are the most important things in our lives.

The dragonlady is pleased with Vador.

I have only been talking to 'marco' for three months the problems I am having with my husband have been happening for longer truth be told probably about 5 years marrying him and having his daughter seems to have changed nothing the same problems still arise, the same issues, the same arguments and like I have already said if I leave my husband it will not be for anyone but myself.

So I would say that Marco is a symbol of your frustration with your marriage, your lifeline, as it were. I'm very proud of you, my new anonymous friend, for realizing that you will leave for yourself, not anyone else. Keep thinking that way; keep your head clear. And you can always get counseling for you alone, to help you through what seems to be an upcoming transition in your life. I highly recommend consulting your doctor about the possibility of using an antidepressant; it could change your life drastically for the better. I know; I take Zoloft every day, and my children told me that before I started taking it, they called me "the bubble-burster" because I was so negative, but I hadn't realized it. I really hope you can get to a place where you're happy having you take care of you.

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