So I went to New York on to see a fling that I met in Miami who flew me into his hometown of New Jersey so we could see each other. When we met it was the typical meet at club and have a little fun on the beach. Most one night stands don't make plans to see each other ever again (thats why its called ONE night!). Anyway we spend the entire labor day weekend together and we have a great time. He says he wishes I lived in New Jersey. I am from Chicago. We are both pretty rooted in our cities. We don't really talk on the phone, just text every now and then. The thing is I never met anyone I have really clicked with ever like this. I am deeply in love, and it is crushing me that things will probably never go anywhere. Now that I am back home its like noone else is ever good enough. We have the exact same personality! Its like being with a male version of myself. Should I just quit while I'm ahead? I guess if he like me more he'd call me on the phone more often. He will say that he misses me a lot every now and then to. Help! This is killing me inside! Any advice or suggestions?
Posted by anonymous at September 24, 2005 4:06 PMSo you've spent 3 or 4 nights with him and you're "deeply in love"? No, you're deeply in heat. You don't know him, you just know you like to have sex with him. Yes, quit while you are ahead.
Posted by: at September 24, 2005 5:44 PMWell no, its not because we had great sex. We did other things to. Maybe your are right on the term "deeply in love", but I do like the guy a lot. Its not like I'm in this pipedream everything will work out. My gripe is I just meet poor quality people at home. What geared me towards the love statement was how much our personalities were alike and how well we got along with everything else other then sex. Most dates I go on I can't stand the person and never go on anymore.
Posted by: anon at September 24, 2005 6:14 PMFrom your comments, it seems that you know he isn't as into you as you are into him. A fling is a fling is a fling; they're great fantasy fuel, but that's about all. I find it hard to believe that there is no one in all of Chicago that you cannot build a relationship with. Take my advice: Relax. The man who is your everything, your soulmate, will come along when you least expect it, ususaaly when you've relaxed enough that you've stopped looking.
Posted by: at September 26, 2005 12:29 PMI read a good book called He's Just not Into You from the creators of Sex in the City something to look into
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