Anonyblog

I don't blaime you for wondering but your friends are right. Trust me. Before you know it your wife turns into a fucking bitch. The kids turn out to be assholes or worse, stupid assholes. Fuck it. I'd switch with you in a minute.

You have the right to your feelings. People who say that you're lucky because you don't have a wife to argue with or complain about, or that you have money to spend on yourself aren't ready to have a family in the first place.

You have got it right. Life is about sharing it with someone and having a family can be the most wonderful thing! I can't honestly believe that living life is about making money and spending it on yourself.

Your life is what you make of it and you choose the people to be in it. If someone constantly argues with their wife, then they chose poorly because it's obvious they are not compatible. People are constantly changing and growing, at least they should be.

Hopefully, in a loving relationship, both are changing and growing together not apart. In some cases, the harsh truth is that they do grow apart but you've learned a few things while being with them.

You move on and build a better and fulfilling relationship with the next person. When you are ready to have that kind of relationship, events will make it so that you will meet that special someone. Hang in there!

To reply to the man's comment above, your situation is a result of your own making. Every action has a consequence or reward. Wives just don't turn bitchy if they're in a loving relationship. They might need professional help if they have issues that their husband aren't equipped to deal with but they don't just turn bitchy.

Kids don't grow up to be assholes or stupid assholes unless you raised them to be such! They have to learn that behavior so YOU stupid asshole need to set a better example!