I know it's over, I know I messed up months ago... yet why do I find it impossible to move on? She said we were just "taking a break", but I haven't spoken to her since. How can I when she makes an effort to avoid me in the halls and ignores my calls. I don't know how I messed up, and nobody is able to provide any help. How can I fix a problem, if I never know what the problem is to be fixed? I thought we had fun, I thought we had a good time for those months we were together. I must be wrong, because you seem to hate me now. Tell me what I did wrong, tell me how I can fix it, tell me if there's ever a chance in hell for me again.
Posted by anonymous at November 26, 2005 2:07 PMNo, there is no chance in hell for you again. "Taking a Break" is code for "We're through." It's used by people who think they're letting you down easy.
Posted by: at December 2, 2005 8:38 AMHey man, just give it up. I know that sounds easy to say and hard to do but that's the answer and the ONLY answer. If you don't you will turn into a broken man and it will effect you for the rest of your life. If she calls you, tell her that you're not interested any more and move on. You sound like your young and I'm 34. I've been in your shoes and I KNOW that you will have plenty a tail to chosse from in the years to come.
To hell with her. - That's the best advice anyone will ever give to you.