I'm ready for a relationship. I'm sick of living in this lie I've crafted of being a slut of sorts. I had a chance, and then he told me he had a boyfriend. It's easier when you're straight, isn't it? All I want is to experience love, but the world is making me feel like I don't deserve it. Great. My first chance at a relationship was a wonderful feeling, and in less than a day, I was crushed. That's certainly the best word to describe it.
Are there even gay guys in Wyoming worth my time?
Posted by anonymous at January 12, 2006 7:34 PMNo, it is not easier for straight people. Real and true love is hard to find....period. Don't fall into the trap of "self-pity" either because you're certainly not going to get anywhere with that attitude. 'oh pitious me, "the world is making me feel like I don't deserve to be loved".....you say that enough and it will be your reality.
I don't mean to be harsh but people who indulge in self-pity like to have attention brought onto themselves and be rescued and cared for....and on and on and on....and it becomes a vicious cycle of me...me...and more me.....oh and more me......>>and me....
The chance you refer to is not a real chance for he wasn't available. Learn to distinguish what is true opportunity and what is infatuation and crush on your part. If he is the one for you, there may be sometime in the future for an opportunity when both of you are available.
Love comes to you when you are ready. Meanwhile, do other things. Good luck!
Posted by: at January 13, 2006 12:03 AMwow theres gays in Wyoming? j/k but yeah, promiscuity does seem rampant in the homosexual community, particularly males, since women are the gatekeepers to sex and all. but don't give up hope, i even have a friend with the same viewpoint as you that wishes he could find a guy to actually have a relationship with that would last. dont give up
Posted by: at January 20, 2006 9:35 PM