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Purhaps she just wishes to be friends with you? It is possible to have friends of the opposite gender you know...even ones you get along realy well with. I think it is entirely possible that she wasnt trying to "start somethign" and might even be a little surprised or even dismayed that you read her that way.

Amen to that...I decided to take the writers advice though and have quit talking, literally, to guys!! now everyone says i am anti social among other things...but i got tired of being disrespected because I was friendly.

Writer here.

Yeah, I wasn't disrespecting her (or any women for that matter), not sure where that came from Jessica.

Really gals, if a guy started hanging out with you for hours daily and said "I can't seem to stay away, can I?" and sent very suggestive emails when not there, wouldn't you think they were interested in something more than friendship?

Many women today are still hanging on to the idea that it's the man who makes the first move. Since you apparently haven't, perhaps her current week's love of her life is just insurance against being alone, or a way to make you react. So why don't you make a move? Settle it once and for all.

And if she's spending several hours a day in your office just hanging out, I'd like an application to work where you do.

what can i say? you didnt make the grade , so she ain't coming to ya.

Or maybe she is a tease? Sounds more like she just likes to see you squirm and push your buttons.

hear hear. girls get such a kick out of toying with guys feelings.

i guess they think we dont have feeling cause that hows we are supposed to act

Watch out for women like that. If they are just playing, be aware of those man-eaters. They do it to build their egos up. Yes, women have egos, too. They have self-esteem issues and need constant affirmation of their worth.

Guys, really....look for substance and not just if the gal is interested in you because we all know that is not lasting.