I have found that there is a difference between loving the one your married to and simple sex.
Being married is something special that is shared between people that are in love and does not revolve around sex. Love = marriage = family.
SEX is a relief and something that is undertaken for mutual gratification. It makes no difference if it is with the same sex, the opposite sex or sex with yourself, it should be undertaken to feel good. Unlike years gone by, safety is as important as the act itself. I do miss the days when sex was safer. Have sex, enjoy it, and be gratefull for the act itself.
Posted by anonymous at January 19, 2006 12:52 PMAre you married?
Posted by: at January 19, 2006 1:08 PMI couldn't agree with you more. The closeness that develops between a happily married couple can supercede the importance of sex. We tend to be less needful of sexual release as we get older, and then being married to your best friend is such a wonderful, warm, secure and fulfilling way of life. Yes, there is still sex, but it loses its importance; the glue that holds a couple together should not be sex, but love, commitment and true friendship.
Now, I can just hear all you horny teenagers out there saying no way, man, I'll never NOT want to have sex, sex is everything...to you guys, all I can say is the same thing your parents do---you'll understand when you get older. That is, if you're lucky. There IS something better than sex, and that is wanting to be with the one you love until the day you die, and having that feeling reciprocated.
Posted by: at January 20, 2006 7:07 AM