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I doubt that you are happily married. Are you even in love with your wife??????

A man deeply in love would not consider such an adulterous idea. Think about why you want this and not if this is possible.

A woman who would consider this has no respect for herself nor for women in general. As for you, you are no gentleman!

If you have issues within your marriage, work them out! Talk to your wife about fantasies you may have and compromise.

Marriage is a commitment for life not just for most days!

You. You person above me. You're silly. I'd do it. You just need to have more... liberal views. ; D

Crazy bugger.

I'd tell you to fuck off, creep.

I'd be looking around for the nearest security guard. You, sir, are a creep.

lmao, i'd throw something at you! LOSER go home to your beautiful wife...most people aren't even lucky enough to find someone to marry. It's guys like you that make women feel worthless. Piece of shit hahahaha I hope your wife finds this in your history and you can have a night of passion (crying on the curb)

(To the 2nd comment-errr) If liberal is what you are looking for then why get married in the first place???????? I mean, afterall, marriage is such a conservative idea, right? This way if you're still single, you can fool around as much as you want and hopefully if you have a girlfriend, she'll dump your ass!!!!

When you're old and alone and no one wants to sleep with you, because you're an ASS and no longer pretty, then you'll really appreciate your liberal thinking!

This person, the author is right on! What they are saying is whatif???? NOT LETS! Come on married people! Do you really share everything with your spouse or do you profess ignorance when your significant other catches you stealing a glance? What exactly is in that glance?? Self righteous bastards! Writer I understand. What if....?

That is a shame when you can't share everything with your spouse. It's so important not to settle because your eye and your thoughts tend to wander if you do. :(

Hey, Ted: The poster said "what if?" and we told him what we would do "if". And yes, married people, at least happily married people, DO share everything. That's what being married is about. As for stealing glances: what the poster was suggesting goes waaaaay beyond that. I appreciate the sight of a good-looking man just as much as my husband appreciates the sight of a good-looking woman. Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.

"Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu."

Yes, but looking at the menu often leads to trying a sample then to a new meal, then maybe some dessert. mmm...im going to get dinner now

hahaha. I think the analogy

"Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu."

is open to being picked. I'm going to refrain myself, though. Thanks to the above comment, I don't need to add anymore ;)

id laugh in your face.

I'd tell you to learn the difference between breathe and breath.

Poster above me! Spell check freak!

I'd say "get back to packing my fucking groceries for minimum wage, before I call the INS. You homo."

I would say thanks, that is really sweet but it just does not work like that here in real life.

I saw Dr. Phil today (yeah, ok, so I watch Dr. Phil-he knows what's going on!) Anyway, the episode was about Poly-Fidelity.

A man who had been in an affair for 6 mo. with a friend of 13 years who's supposedly "very attractive" that men fall out of their seats upon seeing her finally came clean to his wife.

He wanted to explore the idea of Poly-Fidelity. His wife is obviously broken hearted after 20 years of marriage and 4 teenage kids taking up a great deal of her time.

He says he's exhausted their relationship and that he thought the other woman brought something to the marriage and sparked his wife's passion as well.

Dr. Phil says that it's a fairly common reaction when you discover that your spouse has been having an affair that you do what it takes to keep them but then after the relationship has stabilized, the natural reaction is anger, which she hasn't reached yet.

This guy admits to being the alpha male in the family and to be the alpha male among his friends. He came off to everyone as very arrogant and selfish hence lacking the remorse for what he's done.

He wants to have his cake and eat it, too. He's rationalized and researched it up and down the block and says that he doesn't want to be held back by wester(american) practices of relationships when other cultures have been practicing poly for ages and even quoted the bible.

I thought this guy is a piece of work! He even got mad at his wife for refusing to go along with the poly lifestyle after all 3(he, wife, other woman) attended an "alternative-lifestyle" counseling.

JERK!!!! is all I can say. I hope the wife kicks him to the curb! The guy even had the nerve to say he wasn't going to support her and the kids if she divorced him. But backtracked and said it was the heat of the moment that he said that. Dr. Phil said that's chicken shit! HA! I love Dr. Phil!

Good Luck to the wife!

I saw that show too. I could not believe the arrogance of that jerk! Polyfidelity, my ass. Just like Dr. Phil said, it's cheating. I hope his wife wises up and takes him for everything he's got.

Wow, eveyone is missing the authors point. What if.....? I know because I'm the original writer and all I was saying was what if...? I have no intention of doing anything. What if....? Come on people. What if you are heading to work and find out a nuclear bomb was set off by a terrorist group in your city. What if.....??? What if you were suddenly diagnosed with a terminal illness? What if you suddenly won a huge lottery??? What if...spurs great thoughts.

"what if" does spur great thoughts but if they lead to actions that are not so great then are those great thoughts really great? Thoughts and actions are by definition different but they are intertwined. One should not have action without thought but thought in itself can stand alone, which is what I believe your defense is.

The point, sir was not missed. The way you stated your "what if" was by no means misread by the majority. If that was not your intention, perhaps you needed more time in thinking how to pose said question.

I now pose a question to you, sir......What if most of the comments on here were a yay instead of a nay? Would you then proceed to approach this beautiful woman?

Some "what if's" are great in spurring the mind but others just lead to regret in actions not taken.

Missed my point again. I'll try another "what if...." post simply to make my point.

I fail to see why the poster doesn't understand that he asked "what if" and we told him "what" we would do "if". It's that simple. All the poster is trying to do is have us validate what HE would do "if."

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WOW. Now I understand the war on drugs as well as our governments systematic elimination of ones personal choices one step at a time.
After reading this I see a lot of fear of ones self in the negative posts. The poster said what if....and all he got was " I cannot trust myself to look over the edge without jumping.. therefore you can't look either". Man what a sad and limited mental view on the world and it really explains a lot about how those who are in control, control our lives. I am a happily married man of 15 years. I have never cheated on my wife and highly doubt she has on me.
That said we are now growing to the point we BOTH would like to find a woman to share our LIFE we built TOGETHER in a Poly Fidelity model. I love her with all my heart as well as our 3 kids but just because I want someone else I am automatically cheating??? lol Thats hilarious to us BOTH as she is honest enough with herself and me to admit she has feelings for other women.. We are not open enough for either of us to go mess with anyone on our own and neither really wants to. But according to the common view we are wrong for wanting to share our love with another person??? I don't think so. All the anger and mental hang ups in this world has killed millions yet we are wrong for wanting to love another lonely person....together. It's a sad sad sad day when violence is plastered all over our media while love is ostracized. I really feel sorry for my children.