I've somehow acquired a fuck buddy. I don't want him as a fuck buddy because I am afraid of liking this guy. But on the other hand, I am getting laid, and he's a sweetheart. It isn't going to last forever. Should I just enjoy it? I don't think I can since I am just waiting for this situation to end. If he was all for having a relationship, I think I would be happy. But he isn't even long-term material. Does this mean I am using him? I don't want to use him, either.
Posted by anonymous at January 29, 2006 10:45 PMWho cares who's using whom? End it before you get hurt, or we'll have to read about it here and say we told you so.
Posted by: at January 30, 2006 5:28 AMdon't fall for fuck buddies. it never works out.
Posted by: at January 30, 2006 5:42 AMI agree with the previous posts. in the event that you don't end it make sure you are having safe sex. Otherwise your fuck buddy may become your "baby Daddy".
Posted by: at January 30, 2006 7:12 AMYes your using him! How do I know, because I was once a fuck buddy who fell for the other half and was not so nicely reminded I was just a fuck buddy. Break it off!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: at January 30, 2006 7:06 PMhave fun while you can,, and then end up a lonely spinster
mb
Posted by: at January 31, 2006 9:41 AMI wish I had a fuck buddy.
Posted by: at January 31, 2006 10:09 AMmb, I haven't had a shortage of guys wanting to be my fuck buddy, but have grown out of them.
However! I did end things with this fucky buddy today. As sad that I am that I won't be getting laid in the near future, it was the right thing for me in the long run...
~ The original poster :)
Posted by: at January 31, 2006 12:59 PMGood job!
Posted by: at January 31, 2006 2:13 PMSomewhere out there is a brilliant individual who can only express himself/herself in single sentence responses. Usually these responses are just plain ignorant. He/she says such things as "God doesn't exist" and "you're a dumbass". Obviously this person's life is just so perfect and that gives him/her the right to insult others. Next time you're in front of a mirror I want you to take a closer look at the reflected image. That immature, inconsiderate, uneducated, lonely shell of a person you see there is you. Grow up and get a life.
Posted by: at February 1, 2006 10:10 AM"You're a dumbass" is a more succinct way to insult than wasting a whole paragraph to say essentially the same thing. 10 points to the ignorant (and brilliant, it seems) individual.
Posted by: at February 1, 2006 10:40 AMPlease reset the username and password!!!
Posted by: Admin at February 1, 2006 1:11 PMIfell for a fuck buddy and now he's my boyfriend and we're really happy together. Some people are cut out for mindless fucking, others aren't. You#'ll figure out in time what type of person you are.
Posted by: at February 1, 2006 4:34 PMhow stupid are you?youre using him , you dont want to, enjoy it, no? get a grip grow the fuck up.
Posted by: at February 1, 2006 8:41 PMwhy do you think it's only you who is using him? what do you think he is doing? go for it, have fun, stay safe and just enjoy it without concern for the future
Posted by: Ad at February 1, 2006 11:29 PMI had a fuck buddy once. It was not a cool experience in the long run, but fun in the short term because it all seemed to happen "in the moment". I say break it off before it escalates, because you'll just end up more confused if you continue to fuck this guy.
Posted by: Violetrabbit at February 2, 2006 12:05 AMme too, me too :D
i'll be your buddy, no strings attached, i'll even make you hate me at the same time....
or you could just get a vibrator
Please reset the password, etc!
I'd really like to post!
Posted by: at February 2, 2006 1:22 PMi'm in a situation where my fuck buddy says he likes me, coz he thinks i want to hear it.. and yeah i'd appreciate it if he actually did. Not like I would reciprocate, coz he's "not my type" .. Fuck buddies are great as long as you keep it like that. Buddies that fuck. Actually fuck the buddy part of it.. just two horny people who engage in sexual intercourse. You're only fooling yourself if you tell yourself that it's just fucking when you know deep down you have feelings for the other person. You'll just end up hurt. End it... and find a real fuck buddy.
Posted by: fucker at March 4, 2006 1:14 PMIs my hand considered a fuck buddy?
Posted by: broke bastard at May 6, 2006 12:35 AM