February 8, 2006

I might lose my kids to a hooker

For the past 2 years i have been raising my now 4 year old daughter and now 2 year old son by myself. I graduated highschool with both of them by my side and now im in college, still raising them. A month ago my 3rd child was born and i am now fighting his mother for atleast split custody of him. Back to my first 2 children, their mother left our 2 children, then 2 and 3 weeks old, on my doorstep at 2 in the morning while it was raining. She left a note saying she was sick of being a parent and dint want anything to do with the children anymore. A year after i had been raising them alone, i tracked down their mother and asked her to give up her rights to the children. She refused and said she could get money off them if she needed to so she wouldnt give up her rights. Since then she has given birth to twins who she refuses to take care of and the father of the childrens mother is raising and shes been selling herself for money. A month ago i got a letter from her telling me that she wants the kids back. She says she has cleaned up her act and wantes all 4 of her children living with her and her new husband who she is also now pregnant by. Me being a single parent, living off my parents money. Not proudly, but they pay rent in our 3 bedroom apartment, and pay my creditcard bills. Im going to college so the kids do go to daycare. Im afraid if they see her now as this house wife, sweet wife who just wants to parent her kids, that she has a house and a husband who i guess has a nice job, ill lose my children to this evil lady.

Does anyone know anything i can do to help my case if she does take this all the way to court?

Posted by anonymous at February 8, 2006 9:23 AM
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I see my spelling and grammer mistakes that i missed before i posted it. I would appriciate if you didnt tell me about them. Thank you

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Posted by: at February 8, 2006 9:25 AM

I'm no lawyer so this is purely opinion. I would think that she would have to show an extended period of stability. Just meeting someone new and having her life straight for a few months doesn't show that she is a good mother. Maybe you could prove that in the past she hasn't been willing to stay in a relationship or care for her children.

Good luck

Posted by: at February 8, 2006 9:51 AM

I know your money is tight, but you absolutely need a lawyer. You also need proof of her prostitution if you want to use that against her. I think you'll be okay, since she abandoned them to you and probably didn't make any attempt to help support them. Make sure you're walking the straight and narrow; don't do anything she can use against you. Good luck.

Posted by: at February 8, 2006 2:19 PM

If anything , shes the one not getting rights, she didn't even pay child support for years on end right?

Posted by: at February 19, 2006 3:58 PM

What is this Jerry Springer bullshit?

Posted by: at February 25, 2006 11:05 AM
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