Anonyblog

congrats on finding what eludes many people - happiness. :)

Helppppppp. I am married, a sweet man found me, who is also married. He keeps talking about being with me but comes up with different things why he can't leave his wife; it's like, he's making me wait forever. He is 58 and I am 48 what do I do? I love him.

To the original poster:
Good for you. I hope he feels the same.

As for the married woman:
If he hasn't left her yet then he probably won't. Why should he give up his marriage when he can get what he wants from you and not have to get divorced? I wish I could offer a more promising reply but they almost never leave thier wives.

It's not that he can't leave his wife, it's that he won't. Why should he? He can have his cake and eat it, too. If you love him and not your husband, why are you still married? You're both cheaters, and once a cheater, always a cheater. You two deserve each other. I hope you both leave your spouses, get together, and make each other miserable.

Yes, congrats to the original poster. I hope it's mutual.

To the married woman, I ask why you got married in the first place? I'm really getting sick of "like" posts about married people contemplating adultery. You've made a commitment, work it out.

You all really should take the time you need before marriage. To know that you are COMPATIBLE (religiously, politically and morally).

Don't get married just so you won't be lonely! Don't get married just so you can have regular sex!
Don't get married because you think that's all you can do (that's settling) not to mention it does nothing for your self-esteem.

It's so shameful that the human race is a selfish one! Commitment, marriage involves 2 people not 1. Think beyond yourself!

Also, when you are compatible on all those levels, there is a connection that goes beyond lust/temptation or "other" kind of love. Whatever the hell that means.