I went out with her for almost 6 months. I did my best to respect her space and be a supportive, attentive boyfriend.
I would call her and she'd wait days to call back. When I mentioned to her that it felt like maybe she wasn't really that into me, but didn't want to say so, she said, "Oh, I wouldn't say that's it." So I kept calling. When she kept not returning my calls I gave up. I haven't seen her since (almost a year ago!)
I should probably shake her dust from my feet and move on, but, damn, it, this still hurts!
Posted by anonymous at February 10, 2006 1:00 PMwhat a cunt. get a woman who appreciates your time and attention.
Posted by: at February 10, 2006 2:39 PMWow, that was real insensitive of her. You're instincts were right. She was just too chicken to say it. Sorry you got hurt this way.
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, right? I know that probably doesn't help but eh, time to move on. Your radar is more fine tuned now.
Good Luck with finding someone true and genuine.
Posted by: at February 10, 2006 2:55 PMRejection always is a bit painful but think of it this way....
her rejection ain't worth much 'cuz she ain't worthy enough of a person to give that much energy to. So don't give it anymore thought.
Posted by: at February 10, 2006 2:57 PMSorry man, you are way too needy!
Posted by: at February 10, 2006 5:59 PMIf you're truly interested in someone, calling everyday just to hear their voice isn't much to ask for. In fact, each party wants that from the other. Just to see how their day went and if they're ok because they care about that person.
Don't listen to the above comment, man. He/she aren't interested in anything more than a one night stand hence not needing to call the other so much.
Posted by: at February 10, 2006 10:17 PMHey, I think I dated the same girl! I thought everything was going well and then she just stopped returning my calls. That was only days after she said ahe was falling in love with me.
Months later she called me and said she was afraid that we were moving too fast. I think telling me that would have been a better way to go. Then she said that I freaked her out becuase I called 4 days in a row when she wasn't returning my calls. I thought "damn bitch, you have been calling me 3 to 4 times a day for over a month and then just stopped.
She actually had the nerve to ask if I want to try it again. I said "fuck no!" So after another year of dating her she dumped me in an even more shitty way. That was over a year ago. Some women are just BITCHES!!!!!!!!
Believe it or not she actually had the balls to ask me out for coffee two months ago. So I said "no"....then changed my mind. I guess some of us just never learn. Actually if I get another chance I am going to grudge fuck her until I get bored and then I'm going to stop answering her calls.
Anyway sorry about what happened to you. I know how you feel.
Posted by: at February 13, 2006 8:42 AMI know it hurts the most when people who are supposed to love you hurt you. It is when they dont care a damn that you feel that you are not worth loving. I was in a relationship for 6 years, and now that things are going bad...this guy treats me like shit...why is it that i still cling to him even when i feel like shit...why am i still not trying to hurt him...why am i letting him hurt me...why am i letting me hurt myself...
i guess like the earlier post...some of us never learn...but, i really want to...cause i dont think i can hold on any longer...i feel like letting it all go...letting my life go...and, i dont want to.
Posted by: UC at February 13, 2006 9:26 AMDude... let it go. a year ago? let it go.
Posted by: at February 13, 2006 3:31 PMI know that feeling. Its so hard to shake off someone who totally blows you off because you feel like they never really understood the way you feel for them. The worst part is that you never get to tell them.
Posted by: at February 14, 2006 10:55 AMWow, you're such a loser!
Posted by: Steve at February 21, 2006 7:16 PMPerhaps she doesn't want you because you spend all your time whining to strangers?
Posted by: at February 23, 2006 12:44 PMSeriously, a year is a long time to hold that grudge. Haven't you dated anyone since then? I'd guess not, so that's my advice. Start meeting other people, and soon you'll have some other bitch to complain about. Or maybe you'll be lucky enough to fall in love, and go thru all that hell ;-)!
"Get over it" sounds insensitive and trite, but it really is the best advice. That doesn't mean forgive her, but just move on. Maybe you can try internet dating? (ha ha)
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