One of my friends is complaining about how horrid it is that she moved here.
About how she doesn't belong here.
Even though she's seemingly found happiness here in the form of a boy and some good friends and me, it's not good.
And she should have stayed where she used to live, in bliss. Where everyone trusts each other and everyone is going to heaven, and everyone is from the same place.
She says that it's okay, that she's still very fond of those that are here, but it still bothers me.
Posted by anonymous at August 4, 2006 5:28 AMPut yourself in her place for a moment.
All she knew and was is suddenly (albeit by her own doing) elsewhere than she is herself. She has sarted again.
How would you feel if you moved away from where you are now (if you have been there for some time) to elsewhere in the same country. All your routines all of your relationships will have to go through that transformation with you... some will not want to, and have to be left behind.
It is the nature of the beast to remember the good of what is past more than the goodness in what IS.
But I have been through that myself, and I still don't understand.
Posted by: at August 7, 2006 11:52 AMWell maybe she just likes to whine?
A friend of mine used to tell me off by saying in a very sugary voice "Awww CUPCAKE!"
I would say 'viva la difference' since if everyone of us adjusted well and was content we would not have any reasons to fight each other.