Thank you to all who replied to my post, about the boy i thought i loved. As i read all your comments, rude, helpful, nice, i realized more and more that it wasnt love i felt for him. I was constintaly questioning myself as to how i felt about him, if it was love, i wouldnt have to question it. It was an obsession, a bad one at that. Im deff not over him, but all you have said has been very helpful in realizing what it is i spent those 2 years doing, feelings and wanting.
Thank you for your thoughts and insights.
Posted by anonymous at August 10, 2006 6:20 PMIt is good to come to terms early with that stuff. I recommend you look deeper in yourself to avoid the pitfall again in a different guise.
More often than not we repeat our mistakes, not realizing that we are making those mistakes...hence some of the sarcasm that came through and may have hurt your feelings. But it is hard to reach anyone in this mode, unless you can manage to illicit an emotional response, which makes it easier to give feedback that is helpfull in making changes/plans etc.
GL