I found out that my wife was secretly seeing a guy in November...She says that they where just friends, and that she planned on telling me..We were having lots of problems during this time, and I was being a serious asshole...And to top it off I had cheated on her last January...I was talking to women on the internet, and gave my # out to a couple women, and my wife found a message from one..And another called my house late one night..
Why am I not able to let go? And move on??? I will go for days and feel great and then just get side swiped by my hurt...My wife loves me and wants to be with me, and I want to be with her...She is tired of my asking questions about her relationship . How do I deal with this hurt, and not hurt and push her away.
I want to ruin her male friends life and have came up with sorts of ways to do so..None of which i have done yet..
I feel so ugly, and hurt inside..I feel like i am living in the movie Fight Club, no sleep. wanting some other male to just give me a reason to kick there ass, or get my ass kicked..
Any good suggestions???
Posted by anonymous at January 8, 2008 4:17 AMYeah, here's a suggestion. Forgive yourselves, forgive each other, and go to a marriage counselor.
Duh.
Posted by: at January 12, 2008 6:31 AM