Isn't it great what you can find out about other people?
I left my violent husband a few weeks ago (see "i love my life" post a few days ago)
I left while he was at work and took nothing except the children. It was the only way to get away from him. I took him to court to have him removed from my house and I eventually moved back in.
Since then i've had the usual phone calls:
You bitch!
I still love you
please come home, i promise not to strangle you anymore
I hate you
I'm a broken man
Anyhooooo, today i logged onto my BT account to check my phone bill. (he took the phone number when he moved so i had to get a new one) hope you're following this?
It automatically logged me into the old phone number for this address (which he took remember? lol) Well i couldn't resist having a look.... tell me who wouldn't have done?
And this poor broken, destroyed man who claims he still loves me, took exactly 7 days to find another woman.
I have her phone number, town of residence, mobile number. I know that his phone bill is £254 this month and he calls his bint 7 times a day! omg!! when does he go to work then? lol
I also noticed the weekend he went AWOL there were no calls to his woman so he was obviously there eh?
I also have the phone number of his ex (i can tell from the location that BT dispalys)
I wonder if new girlfiend knows that he calls ex more then he calls her?
Now i'm not a stalker and i don't plan on contacting any of his girlfriends. I'm very pleased he has someone else because that keeps him off my back, and his hands from around my throat.
But, oh, the urge to tell him that i know where he was last weekend when he didn't bother collecting the kids!
Suggestions/ideas on how to use this info?
I know i know *nutter alert* I'm not at all honestly *sharpens knife and finds rabbit*
Nell
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It's not unusual for a woman in your position to feel a need to "get back" at the jerk who tried, but failed, to ruin your life. Don't stoop to his level; if you do, you just may find him at your door one day, fists ready. The bint will find out in her own time just exactly what she's gotten herself into. And, as you know, some lessons need to be learned the hard way.
Rise above it. You can do it. Vent your revenge fantasies here and leave it at that.
Posted by: at April 18, 2008 5:37 AMAhaha woman I just love your story! But I agree with FC, you should probably "be the better man" and leave well enough alone. You have dealt with enough crap and really don't need any more drama. I WOULD print those pages out though, just in case. Who knows if they could come in handy for anything some day.
Oh but it would be great fun to call the new girl's number and ask for him....
But you should resist. Yep. AH well.
Posted by: N at April 19, 2008 4:51 PMHey, it's not all bad. fresh stewed rabbit is plenty tasty.
Posted by: at April 20, 2008 7:04 AMthanks all,
I know you are right and i have not acted on my knowledge at all.
I'm the better person here and if he wants to take up with some other bint, thats his concern not mine.
Me? I'm trying to make up for the crap my kids have been through. Last night we run around screaming like loonies and playing hide and seek until 8pm (way past bed time for them) Just because we can make noise now that he isn't here.
Tonight we are going cook chocolate cheesecake with a topping of black cherries and eat it for supper. Now that he's gone i might actually get a piece lol
Helen
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