I just had the worst fight with my mother and told her everything I fought so hard not to say because I knew I'd hurt her... I am used to taking her crap and thought I could deal with it but this time I insulted her back and let all my resentment flow... I fill like shit but relieved at the same time... I feel like puking but now I crossed the line there is nothing left to puke... help...
Posted by anonymous at May 23, 2008 8:40 PMI know you feel really bad about the things you said to your mother, but let this be a starting point for a real discussion. Start by apologizing to her; tell her how much you regret the things you said to her and letting her know how sick it makes you feel to know that you hurt her. Tell her you love her. Then make a real effort to address the issues that are coming between you. Make a pact to discuss these issues calmly, non-judgementally, and with an effort to repair the damage and move on. Let each other finish their thoughts without interruption. A real barrier to communication happens when the person you're talking to is so busy formulating a comeback to what you've said that they don't hear the rest of your statement.
Posted by: at May 29, 2008 7:24 AMYou must go away now. Take your shame with you. You are not done, the gods will watch you fuck up again and again. Leave and never return. The cycle of your hatred and stupidity will arise to new heights. Smooth move exlax.
Posted by: Mbutu at May 30, 2008 3:22 AMthanks for the advice. you know? that is exactly what happens everytime I talk to her, she is to busy thinking on a comeback... and fuck you, Mbutu
Posted by: at May 30, 2008 3:23 PM