Love has kicked my ass more than once, but just like that crappy Fergie song, the love bug comes right back up and bites me and I'm back.
I enjoy commitment. I enjoy being loyal. I love love.
I cook, I clean, I'm responsible... I'm the complete package! I like to give head, have sex, be spontaneous, do fun activities... I'm comfortable to be with, accepting, loving, caring, giving, kind, doting....
I am relationship material.
I can survive on my own, but I hate being alone. I prefer a partner.
But my question is.... how do you know if its real? how do you know if you really love someone, or you are just all caught up in the moment? I know there is that honeymoon phase and once you are past that, then you start to figure out who the person really is...
I am dating this guy who isn't emotionally available. He just ended his 2 year relationship and I just ended my four year relationship. I know I can't expect him to jump into something else right away... but I am totally ready. Or am i? I've wanted to tell him I love him. I want to say it quite a bit. We've been seeing each other for a month, but he's been seeing others too. I feel like I am competing for his love like on Flavor of Love or something.
When I am with him, the world disappears. But when he's gone, I know hes with other girls and it kills my self esteem. I am much more over my last boyfriend than he is his last girlfriend. And i know they're still fucking... but why would he be wasting his time with me? I know he cares about me.
I think I am getting too emotionally involved. But I can't help it! I hate dating. I just want to be with one person.... thats not a bad thing.
Do I really love him and want to be with him, or do i just want to be with SOMEONE?
How do I know?
I am seeing other guys by the way. They don't compare....
Posted by anonymous at June 7, 2008 12:34 PMIt doesn't matter whether you're in love with him or not. If he's emotionally unavailable, the relationship is a waste of your time.
Posted by: at June 8, 2008 6:14 PMGet this through your skull, there's not a fucking thing you're going to do to keep the fucker. If the guy is into you he'll be there. If not, LET THE FUCKER GO. Wah wah wah. It's like omg, there's gotta be somebody for ME! Grow up for gods sake. For the majority of us, life's a fucking compromise from the word go. Mr. or Miz Perfect might be out there but so are about 5.5 billion other people. Find a half decent match and both of ya work at it. Fuck almighty you're all such idiots. If it looks like it's gone south and it ain't coming back, call it done, have your fucking pitty party and try somebody else. Quit putting so much energy into one person if they aren't worth it. For fuck's sake quit your fucking blubbering.
I'm going to the club after this, finding something good to look at, get him home, fuck his one celled brain out until "I" feel better, and boot his ass out the door as soon as I'm done. Fuuuck!
wow, you're really rude. And you're probably dead on the inside.
Posted by: at June 9, 2008 9:23 PMI agree with both commentor's. Don't waste your time, he'll just break your heart! Don't settle. Take your time with love, the honeymoon stage is alway's perfect but will you be able to live with him when that stage is gone? Move on, and when you least expect it, it will happen.
Posted by: at June 10, 2008 12:01 AMnever allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Posted by: at June 10, 2008 2:01 AMYou said you like to give head, etc. Do you take it up the ass? That's important, too.
If its been a whole month and you guys are not living together yet, it doesn't seem to be going anywhere.
Posted by: at June 11, 2008 9:40 PMMy child, you have your priorities in order and ye shall be blessed with many a sacred sperm cascading across your filthy lips. Go forth and blow thy multitudes!
Posted by: God at June 13, 2008 10:44 AMTrust anyone your NOT,I repeat NOT relationship material.
Posted by: at June 17, 2008 2:57 AMIf you're seeing other guys, you're not in love.
Posted by: at June 17, 2008 3:22 PM"never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option"
I like that...well said...bravo...*applauds*.